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White Privilege

Started byDavid Kleinecke <dkleinecke@gmail.com>
First post2015-12-26 12:18 -0800
Last post2015-12-28 20:10 +1100
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  White Privilege David Kleinecke <dkleinecke@gmail.com> - 2015-12-26 12:18 -0800
    Re: White Privilege Horace LaBadie <hlabadie@nospam.com> - 2015-12-26 15:46 -0500
    Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-26 17:58 -0330
    Re: White Privilege Harrison Hill <harrisonhill2345@gmail.com> - 2015-12-26 14:12 -0800
      Re: White Privilege Helen Lacedaemonian <helenofsunnyvale@gmail.com> - 2015-12-26 23:50 -0800
    Re: White Privilege Helen Lacedaemonian <helenofsunnyvale@gmail.com> - 2015-12-26 23:48 -0800
      Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-27 06:58 -0330
        Re: White Privilege "Don Phillipson" <e925@SPAMBLOCK.ncf.ca> - 2015-12-27 08:46 -0500
          Re: White Privilege Jerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> - 2015-12-27 08:32 -0800
        Re: White Privilege Jerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> - 2015-12-27 08:49 -0800
          Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-27 10:40 -0800
            Re: White Privilege Jerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> - 2015-12-27 10:57 -0800
              Re: White Privilege Rich Ulrich <rich.ulrich@comcast.net> - 2015-12-27 20:20 -0500
            Re: White Privilege spuorgelgoog@gowanhill.com - 2015-12-27 12:16 -0800
              Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-27 13:19 -0800
                Re: White Privilege charles <charles@candehope.me.uk> - 2015-12-27 21:49 +0000
                  Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-27 14:06 -0800
                    Re: White Privilege James Hogg <Jas.Hogg@gOUTmail.com> - 2015-12-27 23:15 +0100
                    Re: White Privilege charles <charles@candehope.me.uk> - 2015-12-27 22:20 +0000
                      Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-27 20:34 -0800
                      Re: White Privilege Janet <nobody@home.org> - 2015-12-28 12:27 +0000
                        Re: White Privilege richard@cogsci.ed.ac.uk (Richard Tobin) - 2015-12-28 19:29 +0000
                          Re: White Privilege "Peter Duncanson [BrE]" <mail@peterduncanson.net> - 2015-12-28 22:15 +0000
                    Re: White Privilege charles <charles@candehope.me.uk> - 2015-12-27 22:26 +0000
                      Re: White Privilege Tony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com> - 2015-12-27 20:06 -0500
                        Re: White Privilege wollman@bimajority.org (Garrett Wollman) - 2015-12-28 01:34 +0000
                        Re: White Privilege John Dawkins <artfldodgr@aol.com> - 2015-12-28 10:26 -0800
                      Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-27 20:40 -0800
                        Re: White Privilege Horace LaBadie <hlabadie@nospam.com> - 2015-12-28 01:54 -0500
                          Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-28 04:18 -0800
                            Re: White Privilege Horace LaBadie <hlabadie@nospam.com> - 2015-12-28 09:05 -0500
                              Re: White Privilege Horace LaBadie <hlabadie@nospam.com> - 2015-12-28 11:59 -0500
                                Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-28 11:39 -0800
                                  Re: White Privilege Horace LaBadie <hlabadie@nospam.com> - 2015-12-28 15:42 -0500
                                    Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-28 13:23 -0800
                        Re: White Privilege charles <charles@candehope.me.uk> - 2015-12-28 09:27 +0000
                          Re: White Privilege Janet <nobody@home.org> - 2015-12-28 12:30 +0000
                        Re: White Privilege "Don Phillipson" <e925@SPAMBLOCK.ncf.ca> - 2015-12-28 11:44 -0500
                  Re: White Privilege James Hogg <Jas.Hogg@gOUTmail.com> - 2015-12-27 23:15 +0100
                    Re: White Privilege charles <charles@candehope.me.uk> - 2015-12-27 22:22 +0000
                Re: White Privilege "Peter Duncanson [BrE]" <mail@peterduncanson.net> - 2015-12-28 13:57 +0000
                  Re: White Privilege Tony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com> - 2015-12-28 09:23 -0500
                    Re: White Privilege "Don Phillipson" <e925@SPAMBLOCK.ncf.ca> - 2015-12-28 11:37 -0500
                      Re: White Privilege Jerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> - 2015-12-28 15:12 -0800
                      Re: White Privilege Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org.invalid> - 2015-12-29 15:38 +1100
                        Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-28 22:53 -0700
                  Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-28 06:41 -0800
                    Re: White Privilege Tony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com> - 2015-12-28 09:52 -0500
                      Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-28 08:38 -0800
                        Re: White Privilege Tony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com> - 2015-12-28 13:26 -0500
                          Re: White Privilege "Peter Duncanson [BrE]" <mail@peterduncanson.net> - 2015-12-28 22:19 +0000
                            Re: White Privilege Tony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com> - 2015-12-28 17:47 -0500
                              Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-28 19:58 -0800
              Re: White Privilege "Peter Duncanson [BrE]" <mail@peterduncanson.net> - 2015-12-27 22:26 +0000
              Re: White Privilege Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org.invalid> - 2015-12-28 20:23 +1100
                Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-28 08:45 -0330
                  Re: White Privilege HVS <usenet@REMOVETHISwhhvs.co.uk> - 2015-12-28 14:31 +0000
                    Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-28 11:53 -0330
                      Re: White Privilege David Kleinecke <dkleinecke@gmail.com> - 2015-12-28 10:18 -0800
                        Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-28 15:52 -0330
                        Re: White Privilege Oliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info> - 2015-12-28 14:54 -0500
                          Re: White Privilege David Kleinecke <dkleinecke@gmail.com> - 2015-12-28 14:14 -0800
                          Re: White Privilege Philip Lantz <prl@canterey.us> - 2015-12-31 01:24 -0800
                            Re: White Privilege David Kleinecke <dkleinecke@gmail.com> - 2015-12-31 09:38 -0800
                              Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-31 11:16 -0800
                                Re: White Privilege David Kleinecke <dkleinecke@gmail.com> - 2015-12-31 12:31 -0800
                                  Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2016-01-01 06:03 -0800
                            Re: White Privilege Oliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info> - 2016-01-04 09:12 -0500
                              Re: White Privilege Jerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> - 2016-01-04 07:26 -0800
                      Re: White Privilege Oliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info> - 2015-12-28 15:09 -0500
                        Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-28 16:55 -0330
                          Re: White Privilege Oliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info> - 2016-01-04 12:56 -0500
                            Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2016-01-04 14:07 -0700
                              Re: White Privilege Mike Barnes <mikebarnes333@gmail.com> - 2016-01-04 22:07 +0000
                            Re: White Privilege wollman@bimajority.org (Garrett Wollman) - 2016-01-04 21:57 +0000
                              Re: White Privilege Oliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info> - 2016-01-04 17:36 -0500
                                Re: White Privilege wollman@bimajority.org (Garrett Wollman) - 2016-01-05 01:24 +0000
                                  Re: White Privilege Rich Ulrich <rich.ulrich@comcast.net> - 2016-01-04 21:14 -0500
                        Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-28 15:59 -0700
                          Re: White Privilege msb@vex.net (Mark Brader) - 2015-12-28 18:20 -0600
                            Re: White Privilege Tony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com> - 2015-12-28 19:45 -0500
                            Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-28 17:53 -0700
                              Re: White Privilege msb@vex.net (Mark Brader) - 2015-12-28 22:53 -0600
                                Re: White Privilege Richard Yates <richard@yatesguitar.com> - 2015-12-28 21:08 -0800
                                  Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-28 22:54 -0700
                                    Re: White Privilege msb@vex.net (Mark Brader) - 2015-12-29 06:23 -0600
                                      Re: White Privilege Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org.invalid> - 2015-12-30 11:51 +1100
                                        Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-29 18:58 -0700
                                          Re: White Privilege msb@vex.net (Mark Brader) - 2015-12-29 22:19 -0600
                                            Re: White Privilege bill van <billvan@delete.shaw.ca> - 2015-12-29 21:04 -0800
                                              Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-30 07:01 -0800
                                                Re: White Privilege Horace LaBadie <hlabadie@nospam.com> - 2015-12-30 11:47 -0500
                                                  Re: White Privilege Philip Lantz <prl@canterey.us> - 2015-12-31 01:30 -0800
                                                    Re: White Privilege Philip Lantz <prl@canterey.us> - 2015-12-31 01:37 -0800
                          Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-28 20:02 -0800
                            Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-28 22:55 -0700
                              Re: White Privilege Athel Cornish-Bowden <acornish@imm.cnrs.fr> - 2015-12-29 11:08 +0100
                          Re: White Privilege Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org.invalid> - 2015-12-29 15:57 +1100
                    Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-28 08:44 -0800
                      Re: White Privilege "Dr. HotSalt" <alien8752@gmail.com> - 2015-12-28 18:09 -0800
                        Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-28 20:50 -0700
                        Re: White Privilege Jerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> - 2015-12-28 20:44 -0800
                          Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-29 06:49 -0800
                            Re: White Privilege rcpj@panix.com (Pierre Jelenc) - 2015-12-29 17:18 +0000
                    Re: White Privilege Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org.invalid> - 2015-12-29 15:48 +1100
                      Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-28 22:57 -0700
                        Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-29 08:42 -0330
                          Re: White Privilege Oliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info> - 2016-01-04 12:56 -0500
                            Re: White Privilege Will Parsons <varro@nodomain.invalid> - 2016-01-04 18:38 +0000
                              Re: White Privilege David Kleinecke <dkleinecke@gmail.com> - 2016-01-04 12:03 -0800
                                Re: White Privilege Oliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info> - 2016-01-04 17:36 -0500
                                  Re: White Privilege Tony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com> - 2016-01-04 18:03 -0500
                                  Re: White Privilege David Kleinecke <dkleinecke@gmail.com> - 2016-01-04 16:11 -0800
                              Re: White Privilege Oliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info> - 2016-01-04 17:36 -0500
                                Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2016-01-04 19:14 -0330
                                Re: White Privilege richard@cogsci.ed.ac.uk (Richard Tobin) - 2016-01-04 22:52 +0000
                                Re: White Privilege wollman@bimajority.org (Garrett Wollman) - 2016-01-05 01:34 +0000
                                  Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2016-01-04 19:55 -0700
                                    Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2016-01-05 06:24 -0330
                                Re: White Privilege Oliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info> - 2016-01-05 13:32 -0500
                              Re: White Privilege Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org.invalid> - 2016-01-05 15:20 +1100
                            Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2016-01-04 19:02 -0330
                              Re: White Privilege Oliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info> - 2016-01-05 13:32 -0500
                            Re: White Privilege "Dr. HotSalt" <alien8752@gmail.com> - 2016-01-04 18:49 -0800
                              Re: White Privilege "Peter Duncanson [BrE]" <mail@peterduncanson.net> - 2016-01-05 12:02 +0000
                        Re: White Privilege msb@vex.net (Mark Brader) - 2015-12-29 06:24 -0600
                          Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-29 06:01 -0700
                            Re: White Privilege msb@vex.net (Mark Brader) - 2015-12-29 22:15 -0600
                        Re: White Privilege Jerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> - 2015-12-29 08:30 -0800
                          Re: White Privilege Tony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com> - 2015-12-29 12:28 -0500
                            Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-29 14:11 -0330
                              Re: White Privilege Jerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> - 2015-12-29 10:29 -0800
                                Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-29 16:16 -0330
                                Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-29 16:20 -0330
                                  Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-29 14:05 -0700
                                    Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-29 17:58 -0330
                                      Re: White Privilege Snidely <snidely.too@gmail.com> - 2016-01-05 23:25 -0800
                                    Re: White Privilege "Dr. HotSalt" <alien8752@gmail.com> - 2015-12-29 17:58 -0800
                                Re: White Privilege Athel Cornish-Bowden <acornish@imm.cnrs.fr> - 2015-12-30 10:27 +0100
                                  Re: White Privilege Ross <benlizro@ihug.co.nz> - 2015-12-30 01:57 -0800
                                  Re: White Privilege Jack Campin <bogus@purr.demon.co.uk> - 2015-12-30 10:04 +0000
                              Re: White Privilege HVS <usenet@REMOVETHISwhhvs.co.uk> - 2015-12-30 12:01 +0000
                          Re: White Privilege Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org.invalid> - 2015-12-30 11:57 +1100
                            Re: White Privilege Will Parsons <varro@nodomain.invalid> - 2015-12-30 01:24 +0000
                            Re: White Privilege Snidely <snidely.too@gmail.com> - 2016-01-05 23:32 -0800
                Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-28 04:20 -0800
            Re: White Privilege "Don Phillipson" <e925@SPAMBLOCK.ncf.ca> - 2015-12-27 14:08 -0500
              Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-27 13:23 -0800
              Re: White Privilege Tony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com> - 2015-12-27 16:49 -0500
                Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-27 14:07 -0800
                Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2015-12-27 19:08 -0700
              Re: White Privilege Jerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> - 2015-12-27 19:14 -0800
                Re: White Privilege Jerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> - 2015-12-27 19:19 -0800
          Re: White Privilege "Dr. HotSalt" <alien8752@gmail.com> - 2015-12-27 11:25 -0800
            Re: White Privilege "Peter T. Daniels" <grammatim@verizon.net> - 2015-12-27 13:27 -0800
            Re: White Privilege Snidely <snidely.too@gmail.com> - 2016-01-05 23:37 -0800
              Re: White Privilege RH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net> - 2016-01-06 03:15 -0700
                Re: White Privilege Helen Lacedaemonian <helenofsunnyvale@gmail.com> - 2016-01-06 21:16 -0800
                  Re: White Privilege bill van <billvan@delete.shaw.ca> - 2016-01-06 22:51 -0800
          Re: White Privilege Helen Lacedaemonian <helenofsunnyvale@gmail.com> - 2015-12-27 12:19 -0800
          Re: White Privilege Cheryl <cperkins@mun.ca> - 2015-12-27 17:26 -0330
      Re: White Privilege David Kleinecke <dkleinecke@gmail.com> - 2015-12-27 10:36 -0800
        Re: White Privilege Athel Cornish-Bowden <acornish@imm.cnrs.fr> - 2015-12-28 10:12 +0100
      Re: White Privilege Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org.invalid> - 2015-12-28 20:10 +1100

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#579295

FromPeter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org.invalid>
Date2016-01-05 15:20 +1100
Message-ID<n6fg69$bmp$2@dont-email.me>
In reply to#579140
On 2016-Jan-05 05:38, Will Parsons wrote:
> On Monday,  4 Jan 2016 12:56 PM -0500, Oliver Cromm wrote:
>> * Cheryl:
>>
>>> One of my aunts, always called Maise, was baptized Mary Marguerite (her 
>>> mother had a good friend named Marguerite). At the time, Vital 
>>> Statistics people recorded births by transcribing baptismal records, and 
>>> whoever did hers read the handwritten name as the much more common Mary 
>>> Margaret. Aunt Maise eventually got the mistake corrected - it was 
>>> surprisingly easy; I helped her as she had left the province decades 
>>> earlier and I was on the spot. It would probably be much more difficult 
>>> today.
>>
>> Since I've been watching Once Upon A Time, I was wondering about
>> the combination Mary Margaret. It's one of the main characters in
>> the series, and nobody calls her just one of the two names, they
>> always go together, even though there's no official hyphen.
>>
>> Why does this seem to be such a fixed combination? I can't find a
>> historical model like a saint.
> 
> Not only this, but other combinations with "Mary" - "Mary Anne", "Mary
> Elizabeth", "Mary Louise", &c.  My theory is that "Mary" alone has
> become to be felt too plain to be used on its own, but it better
> filled out with another name.

At my primary school, every one of the teachers was called Sister Mary
Something. My father, claiming that he could not remember their names,
used to say "I just call them all Mary".

-- 
Peter Moylan                           http://www.pmoylan.org
Newcastle, NSW, Australia

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#579210

FromCheryl <cperkins@mun.ca>
Date2016-01-04 19:02 -0330
Message-ID<df0a8pF8rojU1@mid.individual.net>
In reply to#579131
On 2016-01-04 2:26 PM, Oliver Cromm wrote:
> * Cheryl:
>
>> One of my aunts, always called Maise, was baptized Mary Marguerite (her
>> mother had a good friend named Marguerite). At the time, Vital
>> Statistics people recorded births by transcribing baptismal records, and
>> whoever did hers read the handwritten name as the much more common Mary
>> Margaret. Aunt Maise eventually got the mistake corrected - it was
>> surprisingly easy; I helped her as she had left the province decades
>> earlier and I was on the spot. It would probably be much more difficult
>> today.
>
> Since I've been watching Once Upon A Time, I was wondering about
> the combination Mary Margaret. It's one of the main characters in
> the series, and nobody calls her just one of the two names, they
> always go together, even though there's no official hyphen.
>
> Why does this seem to be such a fixed combination? I can't find a
> historical model like a saint.
>
> My grandmother's name was Martha Margarete, but she only used the
> second one. Only a few close relatives called her "Gretel".
>
I don't know why it was so common - they're both saint's names, and in 
spite of my Protestant aunt almost being given the name, the combination 
is one I tend to think of as a typically Catholic name - two saints, 
Mary (probably the Virgin Mary, since someone named after Mary Magdalen 
wouldn't have had the 'Margaret' attached in place of 'Magdalen'; or 
'Madeleine') and Margaret. There used to be a lot more combined, but not 
hyphenated, girls' names, usually involving Mary, but they're not so 
common these days. I do know one young woman - I doubt she's 30 yet - 
who is always called 'Mary Ann', no hyphen, no adaptation such as 'Marian'.

-- 
Cheryl

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#579458

FromOliver Cromm <lispamateur@crommatograph.info>
Date2016-01-05 13:32 -0500
Message-ID<1ob1oloiylvub.dlg@mid.crommatograph.info>
In reply to#579210
* Cheryl:

> On 2016-01-04 2:26 PM, Oliver Cromm wrote:
>> * Cheryl:
>>
>>> One of my aunts, always called Maise, was baptized Mary Marguerite (her
>>> mother had a good friend named Marguerite). At the time, Vital
>>> Statistics people recorded births by transcribing baptismal records, and
>>> whoever did hers read the handwritten name as the much more common Mary
>>> Margaret. Aunt Maise eventually got the mistake corrected - it was
>>> surprisingly easy; I helped her as she had left the province decades
>>> earlier and I was on the spot. It would probably be much more difficult
>>> today.
>>
>> Since I've been watching Once Upon A Time, I was wondering about
>> the combination Mary Margaret. It's one of the main characters in
>> the series, and nobody calls her just one of the two names, they
>> always go together, even though there's no official hyphen.
>>
>> Why does this seem to be such a fixed combination? I can't find a
>> historical model like a saint.
>>
>> My grandmother's name was Martha Margarete, but she only used the
>> second one. Only a few close relatives called her "Gretel".
>>
> I don't know why it was so common - they're both saint's names, and in 
> spite of my Protestant aunt almost being given the name, the combination 
> is one I tend to think of as a typically Catholic name - two saints, 
> Mary (probably the Virgin Mary, since someone named after Mary Magdalen 
> wouldn't have had the 'Margaret' attached in place of 'Magdalen'; or 
> 'Madeleine') and Margaret. There used to be a lot more combined, but not 
> hyphenated, girls' names, usually involving Mary, but they're not so 
> common these days. I do know one young woman - I doubt she's 30 yet - 
> who is always called 'Mary Ann', no hyphen, no adaptation such as 'Marian'.

That brings to mind 5th grade, when our teacher noticed that we
had two girls named Nicola. "Oh, but you are Nicola-Maria!", to
which the other said "I'm Nicola Maria, too, just not with a
hyphen". So they became (not to the teacher, but to the rest of
the class) "Nicola with" and "Nicola without".

-- 
Manche Dinge sind vorgeschrieben, weil man sie braucht, andere
braucht man nur, weil sie vorgeschrieben sind.
  -- Helmut Richter in de.etc.sprache.deutsch

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#579275

From"Dr. HotSalt" <alien8752@gmail.com>
Date2016-01-04 18:49 -0800
Message-ID<0f096eca-b8d7-442b-a515-6a7068e45b05@googlegroups.com>
In reply to#579131
On Monday, January 4, 2016 at 9:56:26 AM UTC-8, Oliver Cromm wrote:
> * Cheryl:
> 
> > One of my aunts, always called Maise, was baptized Mary Marguerite (her 
> > mother had a good friend named Marguerite). At the time, Vital 
> > Statistics people recorded births by transcribing baptismal records, and 
> > whoever did hers read the handwritten name as the much more common Mary 
> > Margaret. Aunt Maise eventually got the mistake corrected - it was 
> > surprisingly easy; I helped her as she had left the province decades 
> > earlier and I was on the spot. It would probably be much more difficult 
> > today.
> 
> Since I've been watching Once Upon A Time, I was wondering about
> the combination Mary Margaret. It's one of the main characters in
> the series, and nobody calls her just one of the two names, they
> always go together, even though there's no official hyphen.
> 
> Why does this seem to be such a fixed combination? I can't find a
> historical model like a saint.
> 
> My grandmother's name was Martha Margarete, but she only used the
> second one. Only a few close relatives called her "Gretel".

  Gretel is derived from Margaret? Is Greta also?


  Dr. HotSalt

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#579385

From"Peter Duncanson [BrE]" <mail@peterduncanson.net>
Date2016-01-05 12:02 +0000
Message-ID<bvbn8b5chlv1jdt1sfh20ggh76sfk51bui@4ax.com>
In reply to#579275
On Mon, 4 Jan 2016 18:49:55 -0800 (PST), "Dr. HotSalt"
<alien8752@gmail.com> wrote:

>On Monday, January 4, 2016 at 9:56:26 AM UTC-8, Oliver Cromm wrote:
>> * Cheryl:
>> 
>> > One of my aunts, always called Maise, was baptized Mary Marguerite (her 
>> > mother had a good friend named Marguerite). At the time, Vital 
>> > Statistics people recorded births by transcribing baptismal records, and 
>> > whoever did hers read the handwritten name as the much more common Mary 
>> > Margaret. Aunt Maise eventually got the mistake corrected - it was 
>> > surprisingly easy; I helped her as she had left the province decades 
>> > earlier and I was on the spot. It would probably be much more difficult 
>> > today.
>> 
>> Since I've been watching Once Upon A Time, I was wondering about
>> the combination Mary Margaret. It's one of the main characters in
>> the series, and nobody calls her just one of the two names, they
>> always go together, even though there's no official hyphen.
>> 
>> Why does this seem to be such a fixed combination? I can't find a
>> historical model like a saint.
>> 
>> My grandmother's name was Martha Margarete, but she only used the
>> second one. Only a few close relatives called her "Gretel".
>
>  Gretel is derived from Margaret? Is Greta also?

I don't know which were derived from which but this lists "Alternate
forms of Margaret, including short forms and pet names" (including Greta
and Gretel):
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Margaret#Variant_forms


-- 
Peter Duncanson, UK
(in alt.usage.english)

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#577869

Frommsb@vex.net (Mark Brader)
Date2015-12-29 06:24 -0600
Message-ID<B_GdnSJT1OMb5h_LnZ2dnUU7-dWdnZ2d@giganews.com>
In reply to#577830
R.H. Draney:
> My mother always said that if he'd been born a girl he would have been 
> named "Linda"...instead, when he was old enough, he went off and 
> *married* a Linda....
> 
> Twice...
 
What, the same one?
-- 
Mark Brader   |  "Of course, the most important part of making the
Toronto       |   proposal something special for both of you is
msb@vex.net   |   addressing it to the right person." --Mara Chibnik

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#577876

FromRH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net>
Date2015-12-29 06:01 -0700
Message-ID<n5u06k0dss@news4.newsguy.com>
In reply to#577869
On 12/29/2015 5:24 AM, Mark Brader wrote:
> R.H. Draney:
>> My mother always said that if he'd been born a girl he would have been
>> named "Linda"...instead, when he was old enough, he went off and
>> *married* a Linda....
>>
>> Twice...
>
> What, the same one?

Yes....

After divorcing her, he discovered that being the non-custodial parent 
gave him a lot less input into how his children were being brought up 
than he liked...so he arranged to "reconcile" and get back into the 
household....r

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#578026

Frommsb@vex.net (Mark Brader)
Date2015-12-29 22:15 -0600
Message-ID<f4KdnRm3N-7uxx7LnZ2dnUU7-fmdnZ2d@giganews.com>
In reply to#577876
R.H. Draney:
>>> My mother always said that if he'd been born a girl he would have been
>>> named "Linda"...instead, when he was old enough, he went off and
>>> *married* a Linda....
>>>
>>> Twice...

Mark Brader:
>> What, the same one?

R.H. Draney:
> Yes....

Huh!  Thanks for explaining.
-- 
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Toronto         |     also used in the weather forecast, but there the
msb@vex.net     |     gas marks were missing."   -- Ivan A. Derzhanski

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#577913

FromJerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com>
Date2015-12-29 08:30 -0800
Message-ID<913bfd53-ef67-45e5-8a56-9062a8a1c525@googlegroups.com>
In reply to#577830
On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 12:57:59 AM UTC-5, RH Draney wrote:
> On 12/28/2015 9:48 PM, Peter Moylan wrote:
> > On 2015-Dec-29 01:31, HVS wrote:
> >
> >> My parents mentioned one time that if I'd been a girl, they would probably
> >> have christened me "Penelope" in order to call me "Penny". I don't think the
> >> idea of christening the child "Penny" would ever have occurred to them.
> >
> > My parents were strongly against shortening names, and I suppose I've
> > inherited that.
...

Why did they think that?  Was it vulgar or something?  Or maybe they'd
inherited it too, and the original reason is lost in the mists of
genealogy?

[brother]

> My mother always said that if he'd been born a girl he would have been 
> named "Linda"...
...

Why would she say that, especially often enough for you to say "always"?
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, just that I can't imagine
why the subject would come up.  I think somebody else mentioned the same
thing recently.

-- 
Jerry Friedman

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#577922

FromTony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com>
Date2015-12-29 12:28 -0500
Message-ID<v6g58b9fiese54bvu3kpvve3sne06sh5b1@4ax.com>
In reply to#577913
On Tue, 29 Dec 2015 08:30:55 -0800 (PST), Jerry Friedman
<jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> wrote:

>On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 12:57:59 AM UTC-5, RH Draney wrote:
>> On 12/28/2015 9:48 PM, Peter Moylan wrote:
>> > On 2015-Dec-29 01:31, HVS wrote:
>> >
>> >> My parents mentioned one time that if I'd been a girl, they would probably
>> >> have christened me "Penelope" in order to call me "Penny". I don't think the
>> >> idea of christening the child "Penny" would ever have occurred to them.
>> >
>> > My parents were strongly against shortening names, and I suppose I've
>> > inherited that.
>...
>
>Why did they think that?  Was it vulgar or something?  Or maybe they'd
>inherited it too, and the original reason is lost in the mists of
>genealogy?

My parents felt the same, but didn't carry it too far.  They felt that
my brother and I were given names, and that's what we should be
called.  When I started calling myself "Tony" instead of "Anthony", my
parents never joined in the changed.  

When I'd receive a call from my father at the office, he'd ask for
"Anthony".  New employees had to be informed that this was me else
they would ask "Anthony who?" and aggravate my father.  

Aggravation wasn't to be avoided, though.  My father never accepted
that I could be on with a caller more important than him and that he
should be put on hold.


-- 
Tony Cooper - Orlando, Florida

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#577923

FromCheryl <cperkins@mun.ca>
Date2015-12-29 14:11 -0330
Message-ID<defutpF3nntU1@mid.individual.net>
In reply to#577922
On 2015-12-29 1:58 PM, Tony Cooper wrote:
> On Tue, 29 Dec 2015 08:30:55 -0800 (PST), Jerry Friedman
> <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> wrote:
>
>> On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 12:57:59 AM UTC-5, RH Draney wrote:
>>> On 12/28/2015 9:48 PM, Peter Moylan wrote:
>>>> On 2015-Dec-29 01:31, HVS wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> My parents mentioned one time that if I'd been a girl, they would probably
>>>>> have christened me "Penelope" in order to call me "Penny". I don't think the
>>>>> idea of christening the child "Penny" would ever have occurred to them.
>>>>
>>>> My parents were strongly against shortening names, and I suppose I've
>>>> inherited that.
>> ...
>>
>> Why did they think that?  Was it vulgar or something?  Or maybe they'd
>> inherited it too, and the original reason is lost in the mists of
>> genealogy?
>
> My parents felt the same, but didn't carry it too far.  They felt that
> my brother and I were given names, and that's what we should be
> called.  When I started calling myself "Tony" instead of "Anthony", my
> parents never joined in the changed.
>
> When I'd receive a call from my father at the office, he'd ask for
> "Anthony".  New employees had to be informed that this was me else
> they would ask "Anthony who?" and aggravate my father.
>
> Aggravation wasn't to be avoided, though.  My father never accepted
> that I could be on with a caller more important than him and that he
> should be put on hold.

I think my mother didn't think that people should change the 
carefully-chosen name of the child, and also in some cases disliked the 
popular nicknames for names she might otherwise have chosen. This is a 
little odd in one respect, since there had been a famous family dispute 
over my mother's name when one parent insisted on calling her by the 
name he preferred (I think it came from his side of the family) until 
she was four or five, while everyone else called her by her middle name. 
That dispute didn't involve nicknames, although it did involve parental 
choice.

When their third child was due, my parents suggested that my sister and 
I suggest possible names, none of which, incidentally, they chose. We 
had a rather youthful and bizarre taste in names. When I came up with a 
normal one (Theresa), my mother dismissed it on the grounds that it was 
often mispronounced (as 'Treesa') and quite often turned into nicknames 
she disliked.

-- 
Cheryl

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#577930

FromJerry Friedman <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com>
Date2015-12-29 10:29 -0800
Message-ID<3fae9578-2435-4300-be55-9cfc82886e69@googlegroups.com>
In reply to#577923
On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 12:41:18 PM UTC-5, Cheryl P wrote:
> On 2015-12-29 1:58 PM, Tony Cooper wrote:
> > On Tue, 29 Dec 2015 08:30:55 -0800 (PST), Jerry Friedman
> > <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> wrote:
> >
> >> On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 12:57:59 AM UTC-5, RH Draney wrote:
> >>> On 12/28/2015 9:48 PM, Peter Moylan wrote:
> >>>> On 2015-Dec-29 01:31, HVS wrote:
> >>>>
> >>>>> My parents mentioned one time that if I'd been a girl, they would probably
> >>>>> have christened me "Penelope" in order to call me "Penny". I don't think the
> >>>>> idea of christening the child "Penny" would ever have occurred to them.
> >>>>
> >>>> My parents were strongly against shortening names, and I suppose I've
> >>>> inherited that.
> >> ...
> >>
> >> Why did they think that?  Was it vulgar or something?  Or maybe they'd
> >> inherited it too, and the original reason is lost in the mists of
> >> genealogy?
> >
> > My parents felt the same, but didn't carry it too far.  They felt that
> > my brother and I were given names, and that's what we should be
> > called.  When I started calling myself "Tony" instead of "Anthony", my
> > parents never joined in the changed.
> >
> > When I'd receive a call from my father at the office, he'd ask for
> > "Anthony".  New employees had to be informed that this was me else
> > they would ask "Anthony who?" and aggravate my father.
> >
> > Aggravation wasn't to be avoided, though.  My father never accepted
> > that I could be on with a caller more important than him and that he
> > should be put on hold.
> 
> I think my mother didn't think that people should change the 
> carefully-chosen name of the child, and also in some cases disliked the 
> popular nicknames for names she might otherwise have chosen.

Apparently there was no possibility that she would give a child a
name because she liked the nickname.  For instance, I was named Gerald
because my parents had decided on "Jerry".

> This is a 
> little odd in one respect, since there had been a famous family dispute 
> over my mother's name when one parent insisted on calling her by the 
> name he preferred (I think it came from his side of the family)

I could hazard a guess at which parent that was.

> until 
> she was four or five, while everyone else called her by her middle name. 
> That dispute didn't involve nicknames, although it did involve parental 
> choice.
> 
> When their third child was due, my parents suggested that my sister and 
> I suggest possible names, none of which, incidentally, they chose. We 
> had a rather youthful and bizarre taste in names. When I came up with a 
> normal one (Theresa), my mother dismissed it on the grounds that it was 
> often mispronounced (as 'Treesa') and quite often turned into nicknames 
> she disliked.

In one of the early episodes of /Inspector Morse/ (see other thread),
there's a character named Cheryl, pronounced with Ch as is "cherry".
Maybe your mother didn't know that more than one pronunciation was
possible.  I certainly didn't.

-- 
Jerry Friedman

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#577942

FromCheryl <cperkins@mun.ca>
Date2015-12-29 16:16 -0330
Message-ID<deg68eF5kaeU1@mid.individual.net>
In reply to#577930
On 2015-12-29 2:59 PM, Jerry Friedman wrote:

>
> In one of the early episodes of /Inspector Morse/ (see other thread),
> there's a character named Cheryl, pronounced with Ch as is "cherry".
> Maybe your mother didn't know that more than one pronunciation was
> possible.  I certainly didn't.
>
I'm sure she didn't. I didn't know about the UK pronunciation until I 
was well into adulthood, and when I first heard it, I thought it was a 
mistake by someone who wasn't familiar with the name.

-- 
Cheryl

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#577946

FromCheryl <cperkins@mun.ca>
Date2015-12-29 16:20 -0330
Message-ID<deg6fjF5n2dU1@mid.individual.net>
In reply to#577930
On 2015-12-29 2:59 PM, Jerry Friedman wrote:
> On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 12:41:18 PM UTC-5, Cheryl P wrote:

>> I think my mother didn't think that people should change the
>> carefully-chosen name of the child, and also in some cases disliked the
>> popular nicknames for names she might otherwise have chosen.
>
> Apparently there was no possibility that she would give a child a
> name because she liked the nickname.  For instance, I was named Gerald
> because my parents had decided on "Jerry".

Forgot to answer this. No, I think she generally disliked nicknames, 
although many people seemed to follow the same process your parents did. 
(One Jerry I knew got some amusement at the general assumption that he 
was a Gerald, which is quite a popular name here. He's a Jeremiah.)

My mother didn't even call any of her daughters after her adored 
grandmother Lucy because she considered 'Lucy' a nickname and disliked 
it. She found out later that Lucy's official name was Lucinda, which 
would have been acceptable. My own grandmother, Jessie (not officially 
Jessica), disliked her name so much she wouldn't have any of her 
descendants given the name.

-- 
Cheryl

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#577962

FromRH Draney <dadoctah@cox.net>
Date2015-12-29 14:05 -0700
Message-ID<n5uslg01aee@news6.newsguy.com>
In reply to#577946
On 12/29/2015 12:50 PM, Cheryl wrote:
>
> My mother didn't even call any of her daughters after her adored
> grandmother Lucy because she considered 'Lucy' a nickname and disliked
> it. She found out later that Lucy's official name was Lucinda, which
> would have been acceptable. My own grandmother, Jessie (not officially
> Jessica), disliked her name so much she wouldn't have any of her
> descendants given the name.

My maternal grandmother's given names were "Mildred Beatrice Imogene" 
(/bi'&trIs/ and /'aIm@gi:n/, just to keep things interesting)...while 
she never denied the name, she was always called "Micky"....

Her mother's full name at birth was "Allie M Robertson"...Allie wasn't 
short for Allison or anything else, and she'd never tell anyone what the 
M stood for, except that it damn sure wasn't "Matilda" (*her* mother's 
middle name)....r

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#577966

FromCheryl <cperkins@mun.ca>
Date2015-12-29 17:58 -0330
Message-ID<degc7cF76v2U1@mid.individual.net>
In reply to#577962
On 2015-12-29 5:35 PM, RH Draney wrote:
> On 12/29/2015 12:50 PM, Cheryl wrote:
>>
>> My mother didn't even call any of her daughters after her adored
>> grandmother Lucy because she considered 'Lucy' a nickname and disliked
>> it. She found out later that Lucy's official name was Lucinda, which
>> would have been acceptable. My own grandmother, Jessie (not officially
>> Jessica), disliked her name so much she wouldn't have any of her
>> descendants given the name.
>
> My maternal grandmother's given names were "Mildred Beatrice Imogene"
> (/bi'&trIs/ and /'aIm@gi:n/, just to keep things interesting)...while
> she never denied the name, she was always called "Micky"....
>
> Her mother's full name at birth was "Allie M Robertson"...Allie wasn't
> short for Allison or anything else, and she'd never tell anyone what the
> M stood for, except that it damn sure wasn't "Matilda" (*her* mother's
> middle name)....r
>
My other grandmother was named Mildred. She died at about the time my 
next-youngest sister was born, so she got Mildred as a middle name. She 
never used it and I don't think she even admits to the middle letter M 
these days.

-- 
Cheryl

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#579590

FromSnidely <snidely.too@gmail.com>
Date2016-01-05 23:25 -0800
Message-ID<mn.2d7d7e018b37d078.127094@snitoo>
In reply to#577966
Cheryl is guilty of <degc7cF76v2U1@mid.individual.net> as of 12/29/2015 
1:28:14 PM
> On 2015-12-29 5:35 PM, RH Draney wrote:
>> On 12/29/2015 12:50 PM, Cheryl wrote:
>>>
>>> My mother didn't even call any of her daughters after her adored
>>> grandmother Lucy because she considered 'Lucy' a nickname and disliked
>>> it. She found out later that Lucy's official name was Lucinda, which
>>> would have been acceptable. My own grandmother, Jessie (not officially
>>> Jessica), disliked her name so much she wouldn't have any of her
>>> descendants given the name.
>>
>> My maternal grandmother's given names were "Mildred Beatrice Imogene"
>> (/bi'&trIs/ and /'aIm@gi:n/, just to keep things interesting)...while
>> she never denied the name, she was always called "Micky"....
>>
>> Her mother's full name at birth was "Allie M Robertson"...Allie wasn't
>> short for Allison or anything else, and she'd never tell anyone what the
>> M stood for, except that it damn sure wasn't "Matilda" (*her* mother's
>> middle name)....r
>>
> My other grandmother was named Mildred. She died at about the time my 
> next-youngest sister was born, so she got Mildred as a middle name. She never 
> used it and I don't think she even admits to the middle letter M these days.

I don't know if Ella had a middle name; Babetta had the middle initial 
E.

I visited Babetta twice; as a 5 year-old and a 7 year-old.

As of 1966, it was no longer possible to visit her.  Visiting Ella was 
no longer possible before I was born.

/dps

-- 
"What do you think of my cart, Miss Morland? A neat one, is not it? 
Well hung: curricle-hung in fact. Come sit by me and we'll test the 
springs."
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#578010

From"Dr. HotSalt" <alien8752@gmail.com>
Date2015-12-29 17:58 -0800
Message-ID<745384ed-9852-43ce-b466-b117a048abf0@googlegroups.com>
In reply to#577962
On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 1:06:05 PM UTC-8, RH Draney wrote:
> On 12/29/2015 12:50 PM, Cheryl wrote:
> >
> > My mother didn't even call any of her daughters after her adored
> > grandmother Lucy because she considered 'Lucy' a nickname and disliked
> > it. She found out later that Lucy's official name was Lucinda, which
> > would have been acceptable. My own grandmother, Jessie (not officially
> > Jessica), disliked her name so much she wouldn't have any of her
> > descendants given the name.
> 
> My maternal grandmother's given names were "Mildred Beatrice Imogene" 
> (/bi'&trIs/ and /'aIm@gi:n/, just to keep things interesting)...while 
> she never denied the name, she was always called "Micky"....

  The aunt who called me "Markie" was named Regina(/rədʒaɪnʌ/), and she insisted on being called that. So, for me she was Aunt Regina.

  Mr. Kleinecke's reference to first and last names getting along together euphoniously reminds me: my maternal grandmother was "Ina Edna Huffman", which struck me as a deliberate tongue-twister. She passed when I was seven or so, and I don't recall what adults were allowed to call her- I called her "gramma".


  Dr. HotSalt

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#578044

FromAthel Cornish-Bowden <acornish@imm.cnrs.fr>
Date2015-12-30 10:27 +0100
Message-ID<dehmbdFgnetU1@mid.individual.net>
In reply to#577930
On 2015-12-29 18:29:24 +0000, Jerry Friedman said:

> On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 12:41:18 PM UTC-5, Cheryl P wrote:
>> On 2015-12-29 1:58 PM, Tony Cooper wrote:
>>> On Tue, 29 Dec 2015 08:30:55 -0800 (PST), Jerry Friedman
>>> <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> wrote:
>>> 
>>>> On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 12:57:59 AM UTC-5, RH Draney wrote:
>>>>> On 12/28/2015 9:48 PM, Peter Moylan wrote:
>>>>>> On 2015-Dec-29 01:31, HVS wrote:
>>>>>> 
>>>>>>> My parents mentioned one time that if I'd been a girl, they would probably
>>>>>>> have christened me "Penelope" in order to call me "Penny". I don't think the
>>>>>>> idea of christening the child "Penny" would ever have occurred to them.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> My parents were strongly against shortening names, and I suppose I've
>>>>>> inherited that.
>>>> ...
>>>> 
>>>> Why did they think that?  Was it vulgar or something?  Or maybe they'd
>>>> inherited it too, and the original reason is lost in the mists of
>>>> genealogy?
>>> 
>>> My parents felt the same, but didn't carry it too far.  They felt that
>>> my brother and I were given names, and that's what we should be
>>> called.  When I started calling myself "Tony" instead of "Anthony", my
>>> parents never joined in the changed.
>>> 
>>> When I'd receive a call from my father at the office, he'd ask for
>>> "Anthony".  New employees had to be informed that this was me else
>>> they would ask "Anthony who?" and aggravate my father.
>>> 
>>> Aggravation wasn't to be avoided, though.  My father never accepted
>>> that I could be on with a caller more important than him and that he
>>> should be put on hold.
>> 
>> I think my mother didn't think that people should change the
>> carefully-chosen name of the child, and also in some cases disliked the
>> popular nicknames for names she might otherwise have chosen.
> 
> Apparently there was no possibility that she would give a child a
> name because she liked the nickname.  For instance, I was named Gerald
> because my parents had decided on "Jerry".
> 
>> This is a
>> little odd in one respect, since there had been a famous family dispute
>> over my mother's name when one parent insisted on calling her by the
>> name he preferred (I think it came from his side of the family)
> 
> I could hazard a guess at which parent that was.
> 
>> until
>> she was four or five, while everyone else called her by her middle name.
>> That dispute didn't involve nicknames, although it did involve parental
>> choice.
>> 
>> When their third child was due, my parents suggested that my sister and
>> I suggest possible names, none of which, incidentally, they chose. We
>> had a rather youthful and bizarre taste in names. When I came up with a
>> normal one (Theresa), my mother dismissed it on the grounds that it was
>> often mispronounced (as 'Treesa') and quite often turned into nicknames
>> she disliked.
> 
> In one of the early episodes of /Inspector Morse/ (see other thread),
> there's a character named Cheryl, pronounced with Ch as is "cherry".

Indeed. Even though Cheryl made it clear long ago how her name was 
pronounced I can't entirely rid myself of thinking of her with the 
pronunciation like "cherry" with an l added.

> Maybe your mother didn't know that more than one pronunciation was
> possible.  I certainly didn't.


-- 
athel

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#578048

FromRoss <benlizro@ihug.co.nz>
Date2015-12-30 01:57 -0800
Message-ID<6a5f9802-1527-4390-bd32-e932eac4c9e0@googlegroups.com>
In reply to#578044
On Wednesday, December 30, 2015 at 10:27:15 PM UTC+13, Athel Cornish-Bowden wrote:
> On 2015-12-29 18:29:24 +0000, Jerry Friedman said:
> 
> > On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 12:41:18 PM UTC-5, Cheryl P wrote:
> >> On 2015-12-29 1:58 PM, Tony Cooper wrote:
> >>> On Tue, 29 Dec 2015 08:30:55 -0800 (PST), Jerry Friedman
> >>> <jerry_friedman@yahoo.com> wrote:
> >>> 
> >>>> On Tuesday, December 29, 2015 at 12:57:59 AM UTC-5, RH Draney wrote:
> >>>>> On 12/28/2015 9:48 PM, Peter Moylan wrote:
> >>>>>> On 2015-Dec-29 01:31, HVS wrote:
> >>>>>> 
> >>>>>>> My parents mentioned one time that if I'd been a girl, they would probably
> >>>>>>> have christened me "Penelope" in order to call me "Penny". I don't think the
> >>>>>>> idea of christening the child "Penny" would ever have occurred to them.
> >>>>>> 
> >>>>>> My parents were strongly against shortening names, and I suppose I've
> >>>>>> inherited that.
> >>>> ...
> >>>> 
> >>>> Why did they think that?  Was it vulgar or something?  Or maybe they'd
> >>>> inherited it too, and the original reason is lost in the mists of
> >>>> genealogy?
> >>> 
> >>> My parents felt the same, but didn't carry it too far.  They felt that
> >>> my brother and I were given names, and that's what we should be
> >>> called.  When I started calling myself "Tony" instead of "Anthony", my
> >>> parents never joined in the changed.
> >>> 
> >>> When I'd receive a call from my father at the office, he'd ask for
> >>> "Anthony".  New employees had to be informed that this was me else
> >>> they would ask "Anthony who?" and aggravate my father.
> >>> 
> >>> Aggravation wasn't to be avoided, though.  My father never accepted
> >>> that I could be on with a caller more important than him and that he
> >>> should be put on hold.
> >> 
> >> I think my mother didn't think that people should change the
> >> carefully-chosen name of the child, and also in some cases disliked the
> >> popular nicknames for names she might otherwise have chosen.
> > 
> > Apparently there was no possibility that she would give a child a
> > name because she liked the nickname.  For instance, I was named Gerald
> > because my parents had decided on "Jerry".
> > 
> >> This is a
> >> little odd in one respect, since there had been a famous family dispute
> >> over my mother's name when one parent insisted on calling her by the
> >> name he preferred (I think it came from his side of the family)
> > 
> > I could hazard a guess at which parent that was.
> > 
> >> until
> >> she was four or five, while everyone else called her by her middle name.
> >> That dispute didn't involve nicknames, although it did involve parental
> >> choice.
> >> 
> >> When their third child was due, my parents suggested that my sister and
> >> I suggest possible names, none of which, incidentally, they chose. We
> >> had a rather youthful and bizarre taste in names. When I came up with a
> >> normal one (Theresa), my mother dismissed it on the grounds that it was
> >> often mispronounced (as 'Treesa') and quite often turned into nicknames
> >> she disliked.
> > 
> > In one of the early episodes of /Inspector Morse/ (see other thread),
> > there's a character named Cheryl, pronounced with Ch as is "cherry".
> 
> Indeed. Even though Cheryl made it clear long ago how her name was 
> pronounced I can't entirely rid myself of thinking of her with the 
> pronunciation like "cherry" with an l added.
> 

I must have missed that earlier discussion. I definitely think of 
"Cheryl" as having initial "sh" (growing up in NAmerica),but I know 
a New Zealand "ch-Cheryl". 

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