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Re: lamda-optimization red floyd <no.spam.here@its.invalid> - 2021-05-31 12:41 -0700
Re: lamda-optimization Bonita Montero <Bonita.Montero@gmail.com> - 2021-06-01 06:15 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Bonita Montero <Bonita.Montero@gmail.com> - 2021-06-01 15:24 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Öö Tiib <ootiib@hot.ee> - 2021-06-01 09:04 -0700
Re: lamda-optimization Bonita Montero <Bonita.Montero@gmail.com> - 2021-06-01 18:42 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization red floyd <no.spam@its.invalid> - 2021-06-01 20:26 -0700
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 05:33 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Manfred <noname@add.invalid> - 2021-06-01 14:51 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Juha Nieminen <nospam@thanks.invalid> - 2021-06-01 07:10 +0000
Re: lamda-optimization Ben Bacarisse <ben.usenet@bsb.me.uk> - 2021-06-01 10:29 +0100
Re: lamda-optimization MrSpook_x510g@6uikovuenojv.gov.uk - 2021-06-01 18:27 +0000
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 05:10 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization James Kuyper <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> - 2021-06-02 00:14 -0400
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 07:26 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Keith Thompson <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> - 2021-06-02 01:47 -0700
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 11:49 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization James Kuyper <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> - 2021-06-02 09:34 -0400
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 15:50 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 16:28 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization scott@slp53.sl.home (Scott Lurndal) - 2021-06-02 14:45 +0000
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 17:58 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization James Kuyper <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> - 2021-06-02 10:14 -0400
Re: lamda-optimization David Brown <david.brown@hesbynett.no> - 2021-06-02 16:19 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 16:30 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 16:38 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization David Brown <david.brown@hesbynett.no> - 2021-06-02 17:46 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 18:00 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Keith Thompson <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> - 2021-06-02 10:17 -0700
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 19:30 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Keith Thompson <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> - 2021-06-02 10:11 -0700
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 19:30 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization David Brown <david.brown@hesbynett.no> - 2021-06-02 09:39 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 10:23 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization "Chris M. Thomasson" <chris.m.thomasson.1@gmail.com> - 2021-06-02 11:38 -0700
Re: lamda-optimization James Kuyper <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> - 2021-06-02 10:15 -0400
Re: lamda-optimization Manfred <noname@add.invalid> - 2021-06-02 19:01 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> - 2021-06-02 19:30 +0200
Re: lamda-optimization "Chris M. Thomasson" <chris.m.thomasson.1@gmail.com> - 2021-06-02 11:39 -0700
Re: lamda-optimization scott@slp53.sl.home (Scott Lurndal) - 2021-06-02 14:21 +0000
Re: lamda-optimization MrSpook_2TF@zp_6z10zl3.info - 2021-06-03 08:12 +0000
Re: lamda-optimization Juha Nieminen <nospam@thanks.invalid> - 2021-06-02 05:05 +0000
Re: lamda-optimization MrSpook_9na7kf9y25@bv5tkwx.biz - 2021-06-03 08:10 +0000
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| From | Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 17:58 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <uiafbgt38f1fnhev1h2prvjuq01jhnt4qr@4ax.com> |
| In reply to | #80093 |
On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 14:45:41 GMT, scott@slp53.sl.home (Scott Lurndal) wrote: >Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> writes: >>On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 10:14:05 -0400, James Kuyper >><jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> wrote: > >>>You're behaving rudely by discussing issues which aren't related to the >>>topic of this newsgroup. You're being sexist by claiming that a woman >>>deserves more respect than she would otherwise be entitled to if she >>>were instead male, but that's a separate issue. And you're showing bad >>>judgement by praising that particular woman, which is yet a third issue. >>>Also, keep in mind that this is the internet - there's no guarantee that >>>any particular person actually possesses the same gender that they claim >>>to possess. According to you, would I be entitled to more respect if I >>>posted using the name Juanita? >> >>what a misinterpretation of my intentions: I never claimed woman merit >>"more" respect, I claimed woman merit respect, which was being negated >>in this case. >> > >Respect should be earned. Politeness should be de rigueur. again disagreeing totally.
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| From | James Kuyper <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 10:14 -0400 |
| Message-ID | <s983ne$608$1@dont-email.me> |
| In reply to | #80084 |
On 6/2/21 9:50 AM, Doctor Who wrote: > On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 09:34:04 -0400, James Kuyper > <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> wrote: > >> On 6/2/21 5:49 AM, Doctor Who wrote: >>> On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 01:47:58 -0700, Keith Thompson >>> <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> wrote: >> ... >>> if you are not a moderator of this newsgroup please refrain from >>> trying to educate people on how they must behave online. >> >> This is an unmoderated newsgroup, which means that Keith can't do any >> more to stop you from acting rudely than you can do to stop him from >> pointing out your rudeness. Enjoy! > > Thus I am acting rudely because I defend a woman? You're behaving rudely by discussing issues which aren't related to the topic of this newsgroup. You're being sexist by claiming that a woman deserves more respect than she would otherwise be entitled to if she were instead male, but that's a separate issue. And you're showing bad judgement by praising that particular woman, which is yet a third issue. Also, keep in mind that this is the internet - there's no guarantee that any particular person actually possesses the same gender that they claim to possess. According to you, would I be entitled to more respect if I posted using the name Juanita?
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| From | David Brown <david.brown@hesbynett.no> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 16:19 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <s9841l$8bc$1@dont-email.me> |
| In reply to | #80084 |
On 02/06/2021 15:50, Doctor Who wrote: > On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 09:34:04 -0400, James Kuyper > <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> wrote: > >> On 6/2/21 5:49 AM, Doctor Who wrote: >>> On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 01:47:58 -0700, Keith Thompson >>> <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> wrote: >> ... >>> if you are not a moderator of this newsgroup please refrain from >>> trying to educate people on how they must behave online. >> >> This is an unmoderated newsgroup, which means that Keith can't do any >> more to stop you from acting rudely than you can do to stop him from >> pointing out your rudeness. Enjoy! > > Thus I am acting rudely because I defend a woman? > You did not "defend a woman" - you /belittled/ a woman. (Assuming, of course, that Bonita /is/ a woman.) Gender does not matter in programming, or in discussions about programming. Therefore, any treatment based on gender in a forum about programming is necessarily sexist and prejudice. It doesn't matter whether you are attacking a person for their gender, or defending them because of it. You have, in essence, been saying that Bonita needs help to argue on the internet because she is merely a woman - it is clearly sexist on your part. (It is absolutely fine to call out and complain about prejudice of any sort - that is a different matter.) > what nicety, and what a pity. > It is a pity that people are rude and sexist. I can't judge your motives - without further evidence, I can assume that you meant well and did not realise that you were being sexist. But now you know.
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| From | Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 16:30 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <0g5fbglkgur7er41qgvbto72d31ssm8siv@4ax.com> |
| In reply to | #80090 |
On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 16:19:32 +0200, David Brown <david.brown@hesbynett.no> wrote: >On 02/06/2021 15:50, Doctor Who wrote: >> On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 09:34:04 -0400, James Kuyper >> <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> wrote: >> >>> On 6/2/21 5:49 AM, Doctor Who wrote: >>>> On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 01:47:58 -0700, Keith Thompson >>>> <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> wrote: >>> ... >>>> if you are not a moderator of this newsgroup please refrain from >>>> trying to educate people on how they must behave online. >>> >>> This is an unmoderated newsgroup, which means that Keith can't do any >>> more to stop you from acting rudely than you can do to stop him from >>> pointing out your rudeness. Enjoy! >> >> Thus I am acting rudely because I defend a woman? >> > >You did not "defend a woman" - you /belittled/ a woman. (Assuming, of >course, that Bonita /is/ a woman.) > >Gender does not matter in programming, or in discussions about >programming. Therefore, any treatment based on gender in a forum about >programming is necessarily sexist and prejudice. It doesn't matter >whether you are attacking a person for their gender, or defending them >because of it. You have, in essence, been saying that Bonita needs help >to argue on the internet because she is merely a woman - it is clearly >sexist on your part. > >(It is absolutely fine to call out and complain about prejudice of any >sort - that is a different matter.) > >> what nicety, and what a pity. >> > >It is a pity that people are rude and sexist. I can't judge your >motives - without further evidence, I can assume that you meant well and >did not realise that you were being sexist. But now you know. believe as you want, I take your words as a total herring from the truth.
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| From | Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 16:38 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <2r5fbg514knubm2mkr93p0qoq2119n91md@4ax.com> |
| In reply to | #80090 |
On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 16:19:32 +0200, David Brown <david.brown@hesbynett.no> wrote: >On 02/06/2021 15:50, Doctor Who wrote: >> On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 09:34:04 -0400, James Kuyper >> <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> wrote: >> >>> On 6/2/21 5:49 AM, Doctor Who wrote: >>>> On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 01:47:58 -0700, Keith Thompson >>>> <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> wrote: >>> ... >>>> if you are not a moderator of this newsgroup please refrain from >>>> trying to educate people on how they must behave online. >>> >>> This is an unmoderated newsgroup, which means that Keith can't do any >>> more to stop you from acting rudely than you can do to stop him from >>> pointing out your rudeness. Enjoy! >> >> Thus I am acting rudely because I defend a woman? >> > >You did not "defend a woman" - you /belittled/ a woman. (Assuming, of >course, that Bonita /is/ a woman.) > >Gender does not matter in programming, or in discussions about >programming. Therefore, any treatment based on gender in a forum about >programming is necessarily sexist and prejudice. It doesn't matter the problem at hand is not the forum, but the person which was being negated respect, and according to nickname she is a woman. >whether you are attacking a person for their gender, or defending them >because of it. You have, in essence, been saying that Bonita needs help >to argue on the internet because she is merely a woman - it is clearly >sexist on your part. Yes! and I am free to help anybody I want to help.
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| From | David Brown <david.brown@hesbynett.no> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 17:46 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <s9893t$f6i$1@dont-email.me> |
| In reply to | #80092 |
On 02/06/2021 16:38, Doctor Who wrote: > On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 16:19:32 +0200, David Brown > <david.brown@hesbynett.no> wrote: > >> On 02/06/2021 15:50, Doctor Who wrote: >>> On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 09:34:04 -0400, James Kuyper >>> <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> wrote: >>> >>>> On 6/2/21 5:49 AM, Doctor Who wrote: >>>>> On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 01:47:58 -0700, Keith Thompson >>>>> <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> wrote: >>>> ... >>>>> if you are not a moderator of this newsgroup please refrain from >>>>> trying to educate people on how they must behave online. >>>> >>>> This is an unmoderated newsgroup, which means that Keith can't do any >>>> more to stop you from acting rudely than you can do to stop him from >>>> pointing out your rudeness. Enjoy! >>> >>> Thus I am acting rudely because I defend a woman? >>> >> >> You did not "defend a woman" - you /belittled/ a woman. (Assuming, of >> course, that Bonita /is/ a woman.) >> >> Gender does not matter in programming, or in discussions about >> programming. Therefore, any treatment based on gender in a forum about >> programming is necessarily sexist and prejudice. It doesn't matter > > > the problem at hand is not the forum, but the person which was being > negated respect, and according to nickname she is a woman. You are free to complain about people being rude or disrespectful - you are /not/ free to do so because someone is (or appears to be) a woman. If you had asked Mr. Spock to be more respectful and polite, that would have been fine. But you said he should be respectful because she is a woman - no other reason. /That/ is sexist, and disrespectful to Bonita. How can this be difficult for you to understand? (I know what it is like to communicate in a language other than one's mother tongue - if you think the language is an issue, please say so. You write perfectly good English so I will assume you understand my language.) > > >> whether you are attacking a person for their gender, or defending them >> because of it. You have, in essence, been saying that Bonita needs help >> to argue on the internet because she is merely a woman - it is clearly >> sexist on your part. > > Yes! and I am free to help anybody I want to help. > You are free to help - you are not free to be sexist (or bigoted in other ways) without being called out.
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| From | Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 18:00 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <gmafbgdc2m1dca657tbo7t8ih62uie19vp@4ax.com> |
| In reply to | #80094 |
On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 17:46:05 +0200, David Brown <david.brown@hesbynett.no> wrote: >On 02/06/2021 16:38, Doctor Who wrote: >> On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 16:19:32 +0200, David Brown >> <david.brown@hesbynett.no> wrote: >> >>> On 02/06/2021 15:50, Doctor Who wrote: >>>> On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 09:34:04 -0400, James Kuyper >>>> <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> wrote: >>>> >>>>> On 6/2/21 5:49 AM, Doctor Who wrote: >>>>>> On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 01:47:58 -0700, Keith Thompson >>>>>> <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> wrote: >>>>> ... >>>>>> if you are not a moderator of this newsgroup please refrain from >>>>>> trying to educate people on how they must behave online. >>>>> >>>>> This is an unmoderated newsgroup, which means that Keith can't do any >>>>> more to stop you from acting rudely than you can do to stop him from >>>>> pointing out your rudeness. Enjoy! >>>> >>>> Thus I am acting rudely because I defend a woman? >>>> >>> >>> You did not "defend a woman" - you /belittled/ a woman. (Assuming, of >>> course, that Bonita /is/ a woman.) >>> >>> Gender does not matter in programming, or in discussions about >>> programming. Therefore, any treatment based on gender in a forum about >>> programming is necessarily sexist and prejudice. It doesn't matter >> >> >> the problem at hand is not the forum, but the person which was being >> negated respect, and according to nickname she is a woman. > >You are free to complain about people being rude or disrespectful - you >are /not/ free to do so because someone is (or appears to be) a woman. > >If you had asked Mr. Spock to be more respectful and polite, that would >have been fine. But you said he should be respectful because she is a >woman - no other reason. /That/ is sexist, and disrespectful to Bonita. > >How can this be difficult for you to understand? because it is simply wrong. >(I know what it is like to communicate in a language other than one's >mother tongue - if you think the language is an issue, please say so. >You write perfectly good English so I will assume you understand my >language.) > >> >> >>> whether you are attacking a person for their gender, or defending them >>> because of it. You have, in essence, been saying that Bonita needs help >>> to argue on the internet because she is merely a woman - it is clearly >>> sexist on your part. >> >> Yes! and I am free to help anybody I want to help. >> > >You are free to help - you are not free to be sexist (or bigoted in >other ways) without being called out. effectively I am free to do and be as I like, this is the free internet.
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| From | Keith Thompson <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 10:17 -0700 |
| Message-ID | <87wnrcw5ht.fsf@nosuchdomain.example.com> |
| In reply to | #80096 |
Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> writes:
[...]
> effectively I am free to do and be as I like, this is the free
> internet.
Yes, you are free to post whatever you want in this unmoderated
newsgroup (which is carried on systems paid for by others, but
that's not particularly relevant).
I have seen nothing from you relevant to C++. I believe my view of
this newsgroup will be improved by your absence, and fortunately my
newsreader provides the tools to make that happen. I do not intend
to argue with you any further. (I would like to see others do the
same, but of course that's up to them.)
If you want to discuss C++, you're in the right place. If you want
to discuss how we should respect women, you're not. And to be clear,
this has nothing to do with whether you're right or wrong.
--
Keith Thompson (The_Other_Keith) Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com
Working, but not speaking, for Philips Healthcare
void Void(void) { Void(); } /* The recursive call of the void */
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| From | Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 19:30 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <91gfbghrjhvjmllsss0ubsjps5b2fpi66v@4ax.com> |
| In reply to | #80105 |
On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 10:17:34 -0700, Keith Thompson <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> wrote: >Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> writes: >[...] >> effectively I am free to do and be as I like, this is the free >> internet. > >Yes, you are free to post whatever you want in this unmoderated >newsgroup (which is carried on systems paid for by others, but >that's not particularly relevant). > >I have seen nothing from you relevant to C++. I believe my view of >this newsgroup will be improved by your absence, and fortunately my >newsreader provides the tools to make that happen. I do not intend >to argue with you any further. (I would like to see others do the >same, but of course that's up to them.) > >If you want to discuss C++, you're in the right place. If you want >to discuss how we should respect women, you're not. And to be clear, >this has nothing to do with whether you're right or wrong. poop.
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| From | Keith Thompson <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 10:11 -0700 |
| Message-ID | <871r9kxkc1.fsf@nosuchdomain.example.com> |
| In reply to | #80078 |
Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> writes:
> On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 01:47:58 -0700, Keith Thompson
> <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> wrote:
>>Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> writes:
>>> On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 00:14:14 -0400, James Kuyper
>>> <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> wrote:
>>>>On 6/1/21 11:10 PM, Doctor Who wrote:
>>>>...
>>>>> AFAIK Bonita is a woman and as such you all owe her respect.
>>>>
>>>>That's a fairly sexist attitude. Respect is something that must be
>>>>earned, not something that you're automatically entitled to by reason of
>>>>your gender or your position. Bonita has rather spectacularly failed to
>>>>earn my respect, which I'm quite certain doesn't bother her in the least.
>>>
>>> disagreeing totally. Respect is due to woman by virtue of ethics and
>>> civilization.
>>
>>If you respect the participants in this newsgroup, consider refraining
>>from coming in here and lecturing us on things that are unrelated to its
>>topic.
>
> if you are not a moderator of this newsgroup please refrain from
> trying to educate people on how they must behave online.
You first.
--
Keith Thompson (The_Other_Keith) Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com
Working, but not speaking, for Philips Healthcare
void Void(void) { Void(); } /* The recursive call of the void */
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| From | Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 19:30 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <n1gfbg9etqs8fqfh582qivnd4rqvtchr4h@4ax.com> |
| In reply to | #80104 |
On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 10:11:42 -0700, Keith Thompson <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> wrote: >Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> writes: >> On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 01:47:58 -0700, Keith Thompson >> <Keith.S.Thompson+u@gmail.com> wrote: >>>Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> writes: >>>> On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 00:14:14 -0400, James Kuyper >>>> <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> wrote: >>>>>On 6/1/21 11:10 PM, Doctor Who wrote: >>>>>... >>>>>> AFAIK Bonita is a woman and as such you all owe her respect. >>>>> >>>>>That's a fairly sexist attitude. Respect is something that must be >>>>>earned, not something that you're automatically entitled to by reason of >>>>>your gender or your position. Bonita has rather spectacularly failed to >>>>>earn my respect, which I'm quite certain doesn't bother her in the least. >>>> >>>> disagreeing totally. Respect is due to woman by virtue of ethics and >>>> civilization. >>> >>>If you respect the participants in this newsgroup, consider refraining >>>from coming in here and lecturing us on things that are unrelated to its >>>topic. >> >> if you are not a moderator of this newsgroup please refrain from >> trying to educate people on how they must behave online. > >You first. poop.
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| From | David Brown <david.brown@hesbynett.no> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 09:39 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <s97ck0$au1$1@dont-email.me> |
| In reply to | #80069 |
On 02/06/2021 06:14, James Kuyper wrote: > On 6/1/21 11:10 PM, Doctor Who wrote: > ... >> AFAIK Bonita is a woman and as such you all owe her respect. > > That's a fairly sexist attitude. Respect is something that must be > earned, not something that you're automatically entitled to by reason of > your gender or your position. Bonita has rather spectacularly failed to > earn my respect, which I'm quite certain doesn't bother her in the least. > Respect is something that you are automatically entitled to by reason of being a /person/. (Since both Dr. Who and Mr. Spock are in this thread, that could be extended to any kind of sentient being.) Respect for the knowledge or the value of the opinions of a person might start at zero until it is earned. Greater respect can then be earned, or it can be lost. You are right that gender, position, and any other unrelated issue should have no influence on respect. I am confident that you are respectful to people you meet - independent of their gender and anything else. Then the respect goes up or down according to politeness, rudeness, knowledge, how they treat others, etc.
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| From | Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 10:23 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <3sfebg1q4a3nivpvk4qauuv9uqnpe4ug8j@4ax.com> |
| In reply to | #80075 |
On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 09:39:43 +0200, David Brown <david.brown@hesbynett.no> wrote: >On 02/06/2021 06:14, James Kuyper wrote: >> On 6/1/21 11:10 PM, Doctor Who wrote: >> ... >>> AFAIK Bonita is a woman and as such you all owe her respect. >> >> That's a fairly sexist attitude. Respect is something that must be >> earned, not something that you're automatically entitled to by reason of >> your gender or your position. Bonita has rather spectacularly failed to >> earn my respect, which I'm quite certain doesn't bother her in the least. >> > >Respect is something that you are automatically entitled to by reason of >being a /person/. (Since both Dr. Who and Mr. Spock are in this thread, >that could be extended to any kind of sentient being.) you are absolutely right, respect is extended also to Vulcanians and Time Lords. >Respect for the knowledge or the value of the opinions of a person might >start at zero until it is earned. > >Greater respect can then be earned, or it can be lost. > >You are right that gender, position, and any other unrelated issue >should have no influence on respect. > > >I am confident that you are respectful to people you meet - independent >of their gender and anything else. Then the respect goes up or down >according to politeness, rudeness, knowledge, how they treat others, etc. I find Bonita nice, polite and exceptional programmer, thus she has my wholehearted respect.
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| From | "Chris M. Thomasson" <chris.m.thomasson.1@gmail.com> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 11:38 -0700 |
| Message-ID | <s98j6n$uf9$2@gioia.aioe.org> |
| In reply to | #80076 |
On 6/2/2021 1:23 AM, Doctor Who wrote: > On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 09:39:43 +0200, David Brown > <david.brown@hesbynett.no> wrote: > >> On 02/06/2021 06:14, James Kuyper wrote: >>> On 6/1/21 11:10 PM, Doctor Who wrote: >>> ... >>>> AFAIK Bonita is a woman and as such you all owe her respect. >>> >>> That's a fairly sexist attitude. Respect is something that must be >>> earned, not something that you're automatically entitled to by reason of >>> your gender or your position. Bonita has rather spectacularly failed to >>> earn my respect, which I'm quite certain doesn't bother her in the least. >>> >> >> Respect is something that you are automatically entitled to by reason of >> being a /person/. (Since both Dr. Who and Mr. Spock are in this thread, >> that could be extended to any kind of sentient being.) > > you are absolutely right, respect is extended also to Vulcanians and > Time Lords. > >> Respect for the knowledge or the value of the opinions of a person might >> start at zero until it is earned. >> >> Greater respect can then be earned, or it can be lost. >> >> You are right that gender, position, and any other unrelated issue >> should have no influence on respect. >> >> >> I am confident that you are respectful to people you meet - independent >> of their gender and anything else. Then the respect goes up or down >> according to politeness, rudeness, knowledge, how they treat others, etc. > > I find Bonita nice, polite and exceptional programmer, thus she has my > wholehearted respect. > She does have a tenancy to call people stupid morons. Also, she has this rather strange habit of failing to quote properly. Oh well, shit happens. :^)
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| From | James Kuyper <jameskuyper@alumni.caltech.edu> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 10:15 -0400 |
| Message-ID | <4fd21738-8d4d-a760-fcf3-17e1beffb638@alumni.caltech.edu> |
| In reply to | #80075 |
On 6/2/21 3:39 AM, David Brown wrote: > On 02/06/2021 06:14, James Kuyper wrote: >> On 6/1/21 11:10 PM, Doctor Who wrote: >> ... >>> AFAIK Bonita is a woman and as such you all owe her respect. >> >> That's a fairly sexist attitude. Respect is something that must be >> earned, not something that you're automatically entitled to by reason of >> your gender or your position. Bonita has rather spectacularly failed to >> earn my respect, which I'm quite certain doesn't bother her in the least. >> > > Respect is something that you are automatically entitled to by reason of > being a /person/. (Since both Dr. Who and Mr. Spock are in this thread, > that could be extended to any kind of sentient being.) > > Respect for the knowledge or the value of the opinions of a person might > start at zero until it is earned. > > Greater respect can then be earned, or it can be lost. > > You are right that gender, position, and any other unrelated issue > should have no influence on respect. > > > I am confident that you are respectful to people you meet - independent > of their gender and anything else. Then the respect goes up or down > according to politeness, rudeness, knowledge, how they treat others, etc. Yes, that's an accurate summary of my intent. I should perhaps have said that "respect, beyond the basic respect that every person is entitled to, must be earned".
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| From | Manfred <noname@add.invalid> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 19:01 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <s98dh7$1rbv$2@gioia.aioe.org> |
| In reply to | #80089 |
On 6/2/2021 4:15 PM, James Kuyper wrote: > On 6/2/21 3:39 AM, David Brown wrote: >> On 02/06/2021 06:14, James Kuyper wrote: >>> On 6/1/21 11:10 PM, Doctor Who wrote: >>> ... It's also possible that Bonita and Doctor Who are the same person, and they are joyfully trolling along
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| From | Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 19:30 +0200 |
| Message-ID | <72gfbgt14j6tcf9q4b4anquohldnlftnbb@4ax.com> |
| In reply to | #80103 |
On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 19:01:28 +0200, Manfred <noname@add.invalid> wrote: >On 6/2/2021 4:15 PM, James Kuyper wrote: >> On 6/2/21 3:39 AM, David Brown wrote: >>> On 02/06/2021 06:14, James Kuyper wrote: >>>> On 6/1/21 11:10 PM, Doctor Who wrote: >>>> ... > >It's also possible that Bonita and Doctor Who are the same person, and >they are joyfully trolling along poop.
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| From | "Chris M. Thomasson" <chris.m.thomasson.1@gmail.com> |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 11:39 -0700 |
| Message-ID | <s98j9c$uf9$3@gioia.aioe.org> |
| In reply to | #80103 |
On 6/2/2021 10:01 AM, Manfred wrote: > On 6/2/2021 4:15 PM, James Kuyper wrote: >> On 6/2/21 3:39 AM, David Brown wrote: >>> On 02/06/2021 06:14, James Kuyper wrote: >>>> On 6/1/21 11:10 PM, Doctor Who wrote: >>>> ... > > It's also possible that Bonita and Doctor Who are the same person, and > they are joyfully trolling along Oh my. Perhaps... Na, but... Humm.... Maybe?
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| From | scott@slp53.sl.home (Scott Lurndal) |
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| Date | 2021-06-02 14:21 +0000 |
| Message-ID | <LtMtI.277462$N_4.68654@fx36.iad> |
| In reply to | #80064 |
Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> writes: >On Tue, 1 Jun 2021 18:27:44 +0000 (UTC), >MrSpook_x510g@6uikovuenojv.gov.uk wrote: >>Calling someone stupid fits that description nicely. > >AFAIK Bonita is a woman and as such you all owe her respect. That is two assumptions, and I've strong doubts about the first, and the second is silly.
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| From | MrSpook_2TF@zp_6z10zl3.info |
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| Date | 2021-06-03 08:12 +0000 |
| Message-ID | <s9a2t5$124i$1@gioia.aioe.org> |
| In reply to | #80085 |
On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 14:21:31 GMT scott@slp53.sl.home (Scott Lurndal) wrote: >Doctor Who <doc@tardis.org> writes: >>On Tue, 1 Jun 2021 18:27:44 +0000 (UTC), >>MrSpook_x510g@6uikovuenojv.gov.uk wrote: > >>>Calling someone stupid fits that description nicely. >> >>AFAIK Bonita is a woman and as such you all owe her respect. > >That is two assumptions, and I've strong doubts about the first, >and the second is silly. Can't you spot sarcasm? Plus stick her name into google translate.
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