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Ted H wrote:

>On Tue, 23 Jun 2026 00:48:38 -0000 (UTC),
>  badgolferman <REMOVETHISbadgolferman@gmail.com> wrote:
>
>>  Last night during the meeting several people expressed their 
>>  sadness that I was leaving the area and how much they 
>>  appreciated my shares and presence. It was actually quite 
>>  embarrassing to me and I wished they would stop and go back to 
>>  the topic.
>
>I don't know what I would have done, but I learned in my inventory 
>that unwillingness to accept genuine compliments was a character 
>defect.  I still stuggle to simply say "thank you" rather than 
>deny it.


Last night before the meeting an ex-home group member of my group
approached me and told me how much he appreciated me including him in
some of our motorcycle rides and our conversations about AA principles
and general service.  He was sad to see me leave.

I was quite surprised by this because I had convinced myself he left
the home group becaue of me.  One night had told him the group
conscience was to read from the *real* Big Book, not the Plain Language
Big Book.  He's taken a liking to that book and would read from it when
it was his turn.  That pissed off several people so I felt it necessary
to tell him about the book, but I didn't tell him about the people.  He
quit the group shortly after that, claiming it didn't "meet his needs"
anymore.

After the meeting last night I tried to ask him the real reason he left
the group, but we were interrupted by someone else and that
conversation got too long so I left it alone.  I figured that was God's
way of telling me it wasn't my business.

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honored badgolferman <REMOVETHISbadgolferman@gmail.com> - 2026-06-23 00:48 +0000
  Re: honored Mark Warner <mhwarner.inhibitions@gmail.com> - 2026-06-22 20:59 -0400
    Re: honored "Charlie M. 1958" <always@impaitient.com> - 2026-06-22 20:41 -0500
      Re: honored badgolferman <REMOVETHISbadgolferman@gmail.com> - 2026-06-23 11:25 +0000
      Re: honored Where there are always 62 days to go <not@this.juncture.com> - 2026-06-23 08:29 -0400
    Re: honored "S. LaRocca" <blutofarts@bigwind.org> - 2026-06-23 09:15 -0400
      Re: honored "badgolferman" <REMOVETHISbadgolferman@gmail.com> - 2026-06-23 18:34 +0000
        Re: honored Sharx335 <sharx35@telus.net> - 2026-06-23 12:41 -0600
        Re: honored Ted H <theise@panix.com> - 2026-06-25 14:42 +0000
    Re: honored Ted H <theise@panix.com> - 2026-06-23 13:57 +0000
      Re: honored Mark Warner <mhwarner.inhibitions@gmail.com> - 2026-06-23 15:55 -0400
  Re: honored Ted H <theise@panix.com> - 2026-06-23 14:03 +0000
    Re: honored "badgolferman" <REMOVETHISbadgolferman@gmail.com> - 2026-06-24 14:35 +0000
      Re: honored Charlie M. 1958 <always@impatient.com> - 2026-06-24 14:41 +0000
        Re: honored Mark Warner <mhwarner.inhibitions@gmail.com> - 2026-06-24 14:22 -0400
          Re: honored badgolferman <REMOVETHISbadgolferman@gmail.com> - 2026-06-24 18:52 +0000
            Re: honored Mark Warner <mhwarner.inhibitions@gmail.com> - 2026-06-24 17:09 -0400
            Re: honored Charlie M. 1958 <always@impatient.com> - 2026-06-24 21:39 +0000
        Re: honored Ted Heise <theise@panix.com> - 2026-06-25 14:46 +0000
          Re: honored Charlie M. 1958 <always@impatient.com> - 2026-06-25 17:00 +0000
          Re: honored Where there are always 62 days to go <not@this.juncture.com> - 2026-06-26 12:33 -0400
            Re: honored Charlie M. 1958 <always@impatient.com> - 2026-06-26 19:52 +0000
            Re: honored Mark Warner <mhwarner.inhibitions@gmail.com> - 2026-06-26 15:53 -0400
              Re: honored Ted H <theise@panix.com> - 2026-06-27 14:44 +0000

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