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Re: a cautionary tale

From Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com>
Newsgroups alt.music.makers.soloact
Date 2019-04-22 15:02 -0400
Message-ID <201904221502426150-Not@ThisAddresscom> (permalink)
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Subject Re: a cautionary tale

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>> It's up to her now. Either she learns and adapts to better gigs, or she 
>> doesn't and keeps wanting to " crank it up ".
> 
> In any case, it'll be her choice.
> 
>> I'm doing a solo mid week, then her and I are supposed to have one more 
>> day to work on some new stuff before the next band gig.
> 
>> Life will go on, with or without her.
> 
> 
> JimD
> 
> I wonder how, or even if she sees it like that.
> 
> Ouisie

Haven't talked to her much this week.  In the past I'd be feeling 
guilty or something, like I'm avoiding her.  Not now.  I really have 
had it with this.  We have a few dozen more band gigs on current 
contracts. Past those, I'm ready to let it go.  Ease out, spend a year 
painting my house or something, then go back into it as a solo only.

There's just too much effort involved in trying to get someone who self 
describes their behavior as " pig headed " to go where they don't want 
to.  Even if they are possibly only doing the stubborn to get attention.

Too much work.  Far easier to just play smaller gigs on my own.

JimD

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a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-04-10 23:52 -0400
  Re: a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-04-11 10:14 -0400
    Re: a cautionary tale "Ouisie" <someone@anywheret.net> - 2019-04-14 17:24 -0500
      Re: a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-04-16 12:55 -0400
        Re: a cautionary tale "Ouisie" <someone@anywheret.net> - 2019-04-16 14:38 -0500
          Re: a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-04-18 12:05 -0400
            Re: a cautionary tale "Ouisie" <someone@anywheret.net> - 2019-04-20 19:29 -0500
              Re: a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-04-21 10:01 -0400
                Re: a cautionary tale "Ouisie" <someone@anywheret.net> - 2019-04-21 13:21 -0500
                Re: a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-04-22 15:02 -0400
                Re: a cautionary tale "Ouisie" <someone@anywheret.net> - 2019-04-22 17:08 -0500
                Re: a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-04-23 19:04 -0400
                Re: a cautionary tale "Ouisie" <someone@anywheret.net> - 2019-04-24 08:41 -0500
                Re: a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-04-25 12:08 -0400
                Re: a cautionary tale "Ouisie" <someone@anywheret.net> - 2019-04-27 20:53 -0500
                Re: a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-04-28 13:23 -0400
                Re: a cautionary tale "Ouisie" <someone@anywheret.net> - 2019-04-28 18:46 -0500
                Re: a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-04-30 16:56 -0400
                Re: a cautionary tale "Ouisie" <someone@anywheret.net> - 2019-05-01 07:44 -0500
                Re: a cautionary tale Jim D <Not@ThisAddress.com> - 2019-05-13 10:49 -0400
                Re: a cautionary tale "Ouisie" <someone@anywheret.net> - 2019-05-13 17:55 -0500

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