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Censorship in Debian

Started byDaniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro>
First post2018-12-20 22:50 +0100
Last post2018-12-29 01:30 +0100
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  Censorship in Debian Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> - 2018-12-20 22:50 +0100
    Re: Censorship in Debian Adam Borowski <kilobyte@angband.pl> - 2018-12-20 23:20 +0100
    Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2018-12-20 23:20 +0100
      Re: Censorship in Debian Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> - 2018-12-21 00:20 +0100
        Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2018-12-21 00:50 +0100
          Re: Censorship in Debian Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> - 2018-12-21 01:30 +0100
          Re: Censorship in Debian "Paul R. Tagliamonte" <paultag@gmail.com> - 2018-12-21 01:50 +0100
            Re: Censorship in Debian Steve McIntyre <steve@einval.com> - 2019-01-04 14:40 +0100
              Re: Censorship in Debian Scott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com> - 2019-01-04 15:00 +0100
                Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-04 19:20 +0100
                  Re: Censorship in Debian Roberto C. Sánchez <roberto@debian.org> - 2019-01-04 19:40 +0100
                    Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-04 19:50 +0100
                      Re: Censorship in Debian Roberto C. Sánchez <roberto@debian.org> - 2019-01-04 20:20 +0100
                        Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-04 21:10 +0100
                          Re: Censorship in Debian Wouter Verhelst <wouter@debian.org> - 2019-01-06 13:20 +0100
                      Re: Censorship in Debian Anthony Towns <aj@erisian.com.au> - 2019-01-05 05:00 +0100
                        Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-05 05:10 +0100
                        Re: Censorship in Debian Ian Jackson <ijackson@chiark.greenend.org.uk> - 2019-01-05 18:20 +0100
                          Re: Censorship in Debian Martin Steigerwald <martin@lichtvoll.de> - 2019-01-06 00:50 +0100
                            Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-06 01:30 +0100
                            Re: Censorship in Debian Ian Jackson <ijackson@chiark.greenend.org.uk> - 2019-01-07 19:10 +0100
                              Re: Censorship in Debian Martin Steigerwald <martin@lichtvoll.de> - 2019-01-07 19:20 +0100
                        Re: Censorship in Debian Josh Triplett <josh@joshtriplett.org> - 2019-01-10 00:00 +0100
                          Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-10 01:30 +0100
                            Re: Censorship in Debian Ben Hutchings <ben@decadent.org.uk> - 2019-01-10 06:10 +0100
                              Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-10 15:40 +0100
                            Re: Censorship in Debian Steve Langasek <vorlon@debian.org> - 2019-01-10 21:10 +0100
                              Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-10 22:10 +0100
                                Re: Censorship in Debian Matthew Vernon <matthew@debian.org> - 2019-01-10 23:30 +0100
                                  Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-11 12:20 +0100
                                    Re: Censorship in Debian Matthew Vernon <matthewv@chiark.greenend.org.uk> - 2019-01-11 14:30 +0100
                                      Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-11 20:10 +0100
                                        Re: Censorship in Debian Sam Hartman <hartmans@debian.org> - 2019-01-12 00:40 +0100
                                    Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-11 18:10 +0100
                          Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-10 01:50 +0100
                  Re: Censorship in Debian Scott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com> - 2019-01-04 19:40 +0100
                    Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-04 20:00 +0100
                      Re: Censorship in Debian Scott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com> - 2019-01-04 20:20 +0100
                        Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-04 20:50 +0100
                          Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-04 21:50 +0100
                            Re: Censorship in Debian Steve Langasek <vorlon@debian.org> - 2019-01-06 07:40 +0100
                              Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-06 23:00 +0100
                                Re: Censorship in Debian Ian Jackson <ijackson@chiark.greenend.org.uk> - 2019-01-07 17:00 +0100
                                  Re: Censorship in Debian Martin Steigerwald <martin@lichtvoll.de> - 2019-01-07 17:40 +0100
                                  Re: Censorship in Debian <flackjacket5@tutanota.com> - 2019-01-07 19:20 +0100
                                  Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-07 19:50 +0100
                                    Re: Censorship in Debian Steve Langasek <vorlon@debian.org> - 2019-01-08 02:00 +0100
                                      Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-08 02:20 +0100
                                        Re: Censorship in Debian Eldon Koyle <ekoyle@gmail.com> - 2019-01-08 02:50 +0100
                                          Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-08 04:00 +0100
                                            Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-08 04:10 +0100
                                              Re: Censorship in Debian Scott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com> - 2019-01-08 04:50 +0100
                                                Re: Censorship in Debian Sam Hartman <hartmans@debian.org> - 2019-01-08 16:40 +0100
                                              Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-08 05:00 +0100
                                                Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-08 05:20 +0100
                                                  Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-08 10:40 +0100
                                        Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-08 03:20 +0100
                                          Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-08 04:40 +0100
                                            Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-08 05:00 +0100
                                              Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-08 10:20 +0100
                                                Re: Censorship in Debian Jonathan Dowland <jmtd@debian.org> - 2019-01-08 11:00 +0100
                                                  Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-08 11:30 +0100
                                                    Re: Censorship in Debian Christian Kastner <ckk@kvr.at> - 2019-01-08 12:20 +0100
                                                    Re: Censorship in Debian Ian Jackson <ijackson@chiark.greenend.org.uk> - 2019-01-08 14:30 +0100
                                                      Re: Censorship in Debian Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-08 18:20 +0100
                                                        [OT] distributions without systemd (was: Re: Censorship in Debian) Martin Steigerwald <martin@lichtvoll.de> - 2019-01-08 20:00 +0100
                                                          Re: [OT] distributions without systemd Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> - 2019-01-08 21:50 +0100
                                                        Re: Censorship in Debian Ian Jackson <ijackson@chiark.greenend.org.uk> - 2019-01-08 20:30 +0100
                                                Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-08 20:10 +0100
                                        Re: Censorship in Debian Tollef Fog Heen <tfheen@err.no> - 2019-01-08 19:20 +0100
                          Re: Censorship in Debian Sean Whitton <spwhitton@spwhitton.name> - 2019-01-05 21:50 +0100
                            Re: Censorship in Debian Scott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com> - 2019-01-05 22:30 +0100
                              Re: Censorship in Debian Steve Langasek <vorlon@debian.org> - 2019-01-05 23:10 +0100
                              Re: Censorship in Debian Jonathan Carter <jcc@debian.org> - 2019-01-05 23:40 +0100
                              Re: Censorship in Debian Wouter Verhelst <wouter@debian.org> - 2019-01-06 13:30 +0100
                                Re: Censorship in Debian Scott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com> - 2019-01-06 20:10 +0100
                              Re: Censorship in Debian Sean Whitton <spwhitton@spwhitton.name> - 2019-01-06 17:20 +0100
                              Re: Censorship in Debian Martín Ferrari <tincho@tincho.org> - 2019-01-08 13:10 +0100
                Re: Censorship in Debian Jonathan Carter <jcc@debian.org> - 2019-01-04 21:40 +0100
                  Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-04 22:10 +0100
              Re: Censorship in Debian Philip Hands <phil@hands.com> - 2019-01-04 23:50 +0100
                Re: Censorship in Debian Eldon Koyle <ekoyle@gmail.com> - 2019-01-05 02:00 +0100
                  Re: Censorship in Debian Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> - 2019-01-05 02:30 +0100
          Re: Censorship in Debian Eldon Koyle <ekoyle@gmail.com> - 2018-12-21 08:10 +0100
          Re: Censorship in Debian Martin Steigerwald <martin@lichtvoll.de> - 2018-12-21 11:30 +0100
        Re: Censorship in Debian Steve McIntyre <steve@einval.com> - 2018-12-21 01:50 +0100
          Re: Censorship in Debian Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> - 2018-12-21 09:40 +0100
            Re: Censorship in Debian Chris Lamb <lamby@debian.org> - 2018-12-21 12:10 +0100
            Re: Censorship in Debian Geert Stappers <stappers@debian.org> - 2018-12-21 19:00 +0100
            Re: Censorship in Debian Josh Triplett <josh@joshtriplett.org> - 2018-12-22 19:30 +0100
        Re: Censorship in Debian Jonathan Dowland <jmtd@debian.org> - 2018-12-21 09:30 +0100
      Re: Censorship in Debian Adam Borowski <kilobyte@angband.pl> - 2018-12-21 04:50 +0100
        Re: Censorship in Debian Raphael Hertzog <hertzog@debian.org> - 2018-12-21 10:10 +0100
          Re: Censorship in Debian Bernd Zeimetz <bernd@bzed.de> - 2018-12-23 21:00 +0100
            Re: Censorship in Debian Marcin Kulisz <debian@kulisz.net> - 2018-12-24 10:20 +0100
              Re: Censorship in Debian Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> - 2018-12-24 13:00 +0100
    Re: Censorship in Debian Gunnar Wolf <gwolf@debian.org> - 2018-12-21 04:00 +0100
    Re: Censorship in Debian Norbert Preining <norbert@preining.info> - 2018-12-25 17:40 +0100
      Re: Censorship in Debian martin f krafft <madduck@debian.org> - 2018-12-26 00:00 +0100
        Re: Censorship in Debian Dominik George <natureshadow@debian.org> - 2018-12-26 00:20 +0100
        Re: Censorship in Debian Steve Langasek <vorlon@debian.org> - 2018-12-29 06:40 +0100
          Re: Censorship in Debian martin f krafft <madduck@debian.org> - 2018-12-29 09:30 +0100
      Re: Censorship in Debian Charles Plessy <plessy@debian.org> - 2018-12-26 09:40 +0100
        Re: Censorship in Debian Andrey Rahmatullin <wrar@debian.org> - 2018-12-26 09:50 +0100
        Re: Censorship in Debian Holger Levsen <holger@layer-acht.org> - 2018-12-26 14:40 +0100
        Re: Censorship in Debian Charles Plessy <plessy@debian.org> - 2018-12-28 07:50 +0100
          Re: Cyberbullying (was: Censorship) in Debian Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> - 2018-12-29 00:30 +0100
      Re: Censorship in Debian Enrico Zini <enrico@enricozini.org> - 2018-12-26 15:50 +0100
        Re: Censorship in Debian Norbert Preining <norbert@preining.info> - 2018-12-26 16:00 +0100
          Re: Censorship in Debian "Paul R. Tagliamonte" <paultag@gmail.com> - 2018-12-26 17:00 +0100
            Re: Censorship in Debian Norbert Preining <norbert@preining.info> - 2018-12-27 03:40 +0100
              Re: Censorship in Debian "Paul R. Tagliamonte" <paultag@gmail.com> - 2018-12-27 17:00 +0100
            Re: Censorship in Debian Gunnar Wolf <gwolf@debian.org> - 2018-12-27 14:50 +0100
              Re: Censorship in Debian Wouter Verhelst <wouter@debian.org> - 2018-12-28 08:50 +0100
              Re: Censorship in Debian martin f krafft <madduck@debian.org> - 2018-12-29 01:30 +0100

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#10008 — Censorship in Debian

FromDaniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro>
Date2018-12-20 22:50 +0100
SubjectCensorship in Debian
Message-ID<x7emB-2to-7@gated-at.bofh.it>

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Hi all,

I was recently at the UN forum on business and human rights, listening
to an Iranian dissident talk[1] about the extremes that his country goes
to in censoring and silencing people who don't agree with their rulers. 
I would encourage people to watch the video.

At that very same moment, the anti-harassment team were censoring[2] a
Debian Developer's blog from Planet Debian.  Chilling.

I actually looked at Planet shortly after attending that panel
discussion and immediately noticed that Norbert Preining[3] had been
censored.  Disappearances of Khashoggi[4] and Kamphuis[5] came to mind.

At that moment, being surrounded by experts on human rights and freedom
of expression who may have far more experience than most of us in
Debian, I did a quick survey.  I couldn't find one person who supported
the actions of the censors.

Some of Norbert's blogs make people think, but they appear to be
overwhelmingly motivated by legitimate issues and his recent blog
thanking[6] Lars[7] appeared to end in an upbeat and sincere manner. 
Whether I agree with either of them or not, I'd like to take this
opportunity to wholeheartedly thank both Lars and Norbert for their
contributions as fellow Debian Developers and fellow bloggers.

Norbert had also made political statements[8] concerning the way codes
of conduct are used in our communities.  People who speak up like this
are frequent targets for political plots, protecting these people is
imperative.

Looking at Debian's code of conduct[9], there is no compelling violation
of the code in Norbert's writing.  Indeed, the only violation of the
code of conduct may be the act of censorship itself: the very first
point tells us "inevitably there will be people with whom you may
disagree, or find it difficult to cooperate. Accept that, but even so,
remain respectful."

Even without contemplating the code of conduct, censorship has a
sinister effect on discussion.  People notice when somebody disappears
and they become hesitant to speak about problems, whether they are
technical issues or social issues.  I feel compelled to speak up but as
I write this, I contemplate the risk that some people will try the same
tactics as the Iranians, censoring me, threatening me or dragging my
name through the mud.  If they try that, they may give each other a pat
on the back but they don't fool our community at large.

Nonetheless, article 30 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights[10]
clearly states that no institution should act in any way to destroy the
rights enshrined in the UDHR.  The definition of an "institution" there
clearly applies to a group with the influence of Debian, it is not only
for states and courts.

Wake up, people.  If we are repressing members of our own organization
like this, we haven't got a hope in hell of achieving our mission[11]
for society at large.

The UN calls on us to "stand up 4 human rights" on this 70th anniversary
of that declaration.  You can do that now by standing up for Norbert. 
It takes minutes for anybody, Developer or not, to submit a merge
request in Salsa[12] to uncomment his blog.  You can also email the
Debian Project Leader, leader@debian.org

If you know people in other organizations concerned with human rights,
discuss Norbert's case with them and get their opinion, just as I did.

You can't pick and choose human rights, having some freedoms and not
others, the declaration even implies this too.  Anybody who tries to do
that is on a very slippery slope indeed.

In my role as a representative in another organization and in my
extensive work with Debian, various people have approached me about
incidents of censorship and overbearing efforts to control participation
in the free software community.  It is far more widespread than many
people realize.  It only happens because people fail to speak up.  For
example, an FSFE volunteer was censored at 34C3 after distributing
leaflets questioning Google's funding to FSFE.  There is increasing fear
that "anti-harassment" efforts are being used as cover for political
agendas, they are operating in a bubble and diverging significantly from
what would be acceptable in any other organization or field of
endeavour.  They post big newsletters to debian-devel-announce boasting
about their work but many people feel those reports reek of gloating and
one-upmanship.

On a technical level, we may want to consider whether Planet is fit for
purpose: if we want to showcase best practice in creating a platform
where freedom of expression can thrive and remain immune to abuses,
should we simply make more efforts to migrate to a decentralized tool,
eliminating the risk that any subgroup or faction within Debian will be
able to carry on like that now or in future?

As somebody more famous once said, "I Disapprove of What You Say, But I
Will Defend to the Death Your Right to Say It".  I welcome responses to
this topic whether you share my concerns or not but if nobody cares
about this stuff, please tell me, so I can stop contributing to Debian
and go elsewhere.

Regards,

Daniel

1.
http://webtv.un.org/meetings-events/human-rights-council/forum-on-business-and-human-rights/watch/panel-on-safeguarding-human-rights-defenders-forum-on-business-and-human-rights-2018/5972123912001/?term=
2. https://salsa.debian.org/planet-team/config/commit/99662c1548fac57813e5288002e3c6eeccf25ec6
3. https://preining.info/
4. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jamal_Khashoggi
5. https://www.theguardian.com/media/2018/sep/14/speculation-over-fate-of-missing-dutchman-linked-to-wikileaks
6. https://www.preining.info/blog/2018/11/on-lars-wirzenius-fun-and-debian/
7. https://blog.liw.fi/posts/2018/11/18/retiring_from_debian/
8. https://www.preining.info/blog/2018/09/sharp-did-it-again/
9. https://www.debian.org/code_of_conduct
10. http://standup4humanrights.org/en/article.html?article=30
11. https://www.debian.org/social_contract
12. https://salsa.debian.org/planet-team/config


--
Debian Developer
https://danielpocock.com



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#10009

FromAdam Borowski <kilobyte@angband.pl>
Date2018-12-20 23:20 +0100
Message-ID<x7ePD-2Sc-5@gated-at.bofh.it>
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On Thu, Dec 20, 2018 at 09:31:46PM +0000, Daniel Pocock wrote:
> I was recently at the UN forum on business and human rights, listening
> to an Iranian dissident talk[1] about the extremes that his country goes
> to in censoring and silencing people who don't agree with their rulers. 
> I would encourage people to watch the video.
> 
> At that very same moment, the anti-harassment team were censoring[2] a
> Debian Developer's blog from Planet Debian.  Chilling.
[...]
> Looking at Debian's code of conduct[9], there is no compelling violation
> of the code in Norbert's writing.  Indeed, the only violation of the
> code of conduct may be the act of censorship itself: the very first
> point tells us "inevitably there will be people with whom you may
> disagree, or find it difficult to cooperate. Accept that, but even so,
> remain respectful."
[...]
> Even without contemplating the code of conduct, censorship has a
> sinister effect on discussion.

I agree with you wholeheartly.  Censorship is at the root, or very close to
the roots, of pretty much any violation of freedom I can think of.


-- 
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⢿⡄⠘⠷⠚⠋⠀ Petrograd, lived most of his life in Leningrad, then returned
⠈⠳⣄⠀⠀⠀⠀ to the city of his birth to die.

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#10010

FromRuss Allbery <rra@debian.org>
Date2018-12-20 23:20 +0100
Message-ID<x7ePD-2Sc-3@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10008
Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> writes:

> I was recently at the UN forum on business and human rights, listening
> to an Iranian dissident talk[1] about the extremes that his country goes
> to in censoring and silencing people who don't agree with their rulers. 
> I would encourage people to watch the video.

> At that very same moment, the anti-harassment team were censoring[2] a
> Debian Developer's blog from Planet Debian.  Chilling.

> I actually looked at Planet shortly after attending that panel
> discussion and immediately noticed that Norbert Preining[3] had been
> censored.  Disappearances of Khashoggi[4] and Kamphuis[5] came to mind.

Entirely apart from the merits of the rest of your discussion of whether
the project should republish this blog using project resources, this
framing is appalling and blatantly dishonest.  It intentionally conflates
issues of government censorship and journalistic freedom that have cost
people their lives with a dispute over whether Debian should *republish*
content that has not been censored, restricted, or removed in any way, let
alone been subject to threats of physical violence.

I object in the strongest possible terms to this framing of your argument.
You should be profoundly ashamed for choosing this path of malicious
exaggeration phrased as an attack on the work of fellow developers.  It
was completely unbecoming of a Debian project member.

-- 
Russ Allbery (rra@debian.org)               <http://www.eyrie.org/~eagle/>

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#10011

FromDaniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro>
Date2018-12-21 00:20 +0100
Message-ID<x7fLH-3qN-1@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10010
On 20/12/18 22:14, Russ Allbery wrote:
> Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> writes:
>
>> I was recently at the UN forum on business and human rights, listening
>> to an Iranian dissident talk[1] about the extremes that his country goes
>> to in censoring and silencing people who don't agree with their rulers. 
>> I would encourage people to watch the video.
>> At that very same moment, the anti-harassment team were censoring[2] a
>> Debian Developer's blog from Planet Debian.  Chilling.
>> I actually looked at Planet shortly after attending that panel
>> discussion and immediately noticed that Norbert Preining[3] had been
>> censored.  Disappearances of Khashoggi[4] and Kamphuis[5] came to mind.
> Entirely apart from the merits of the rest of your discussion of whether
> the project should republish this blog using project resources, this

If people want to clarify the way Planet can be used, they can create a
policy and maybe put it to a vote.  Retrospectively sanctioning people
without strong grounds based on policy is not right though.

People may expect a newsletter or another official publication to be
curated to some degree but I always had the impression that both Planet
and packaging are at the discretion of the individual developers. 
Personally, I welcome the diversity of views there and if it is going to
be curated now, I would volunteer to host an uncensored alternative to
Planet for those with similar feelings.

> framing is appalling and blatantly dishonest.  It intentionally conflates
> issues of government censorship and journalistic freedom that have cost
> people their lives with a dispute over whether Debian should *republish*
> content that has not been censored, restricted, or removed in any way, let
> alone been subject to threats of physical violence.
>
> I object in the strongest possible terms to this framing of your argument.
> You should be profoundly ashamed for choosing this path of malicious
> exaggeration phrased as an attack on the work of fellow developers.  It
> was completely unbecoming of a Debian project member.
>
and I reply with the strongest possible evidence, personal experience
and scientific research.

Having been rear ended by a utility van, thrown off a motorbike half way
across a roundabout and having also received abusive and threatening
messages from people within the Debian community, I feel that the
physical pain caused by the latter was more than the former.  Those
people should be ashamed of themselves.

Research confirms[1] this phenomenon.

If people want to pursue an anti-harassment objective in good faith,
then please start by realizing the existing team and their approach
needs careful examination, they need to make it a priority to put at the
front of their mind the welfare of every single person they come into
contact with, even if they don't understand or can't related to that
person's behaviour and they probably need to engage outside expertise
both for the benefit of the community and their own state of mind.

Regards,

Daniel


1.
https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/roger-covin/cyber-bullying-suicide_b_3996518.html

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#10012

FromRuss Allbery <rra@debian.org>
Date2018-12-21 00:50 +0100
Message-ID<x7geK-3AC-9@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10011
Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> writes:

> and I reply with the strongest possible evidence, personal experience
> and scientific research.

You decided to distort a political issue that many of us feel strongly
about to attack a policy around what to republish in project-owned forums,
which is only on a continuum with that issue if you look for it with a
telescope.  You did this in a way designed to provoke strong feelings and
create moral absolutes rather than start a conversation, and you did this
knowing full well that you were attacking a specific team inside Debian
composed, like all Debian teams, of overworked volunteer members.  You did
this without the slightest attempt to extend an assumption of good will or
allow for the possibility there are further things going on that you don't
know about, and you did so with such pathetically sloppy and incomplete
research that even *I* know you are leaving out substantial background,
and I haven't been trying to follow this saga.

In other words, you immediately turned the temperature up as high as you
could go and called on other people to attack your fellow Debian
developers on the grounds that their work is a violation of UN-recognized
human rights (!!).

That you cannot understand how completely absurd this is means that it is
futile to try to argue this point with you on the merits.

There *is* an underlying project debate here that is a real debate, namely
the rules for participation and republication in project forums.  I think
it's a debate we've had to the point of absurdity, but I'm not horribly
surprised that people want to still have it, and if that had been all your
message had been, I would have sit on my hands and not added to the noise.

But you saw an opportunity to artificially strengthen your debate stance
by comparing the Debian anti-harassment team to assassins (!!) and you
seem completely oblivious to why this is utterly unacceptable in
collective discussion within a project of colleagues, peers, and friends.

I have no idea personally what set off Norbert's removal from Planet
Debian.  When I said irrespective of the merits of your argument, I really
meant that.  But *this* bothers me far more: this kind of brutal approach
to Debian politics is hostile, nasty, and deeply hurtful to the project.

If you want to have a debate about the decision of a team in Debian, you
have an obligation to the project to conduct that debate with a certain
basic level of mutual respect.  Asking you to not compare your fellow
project members to assassins does not seem like a high bar!  If you aren't
going to do that, I for one am quite happy to make this argument about
*your* behavior, which was appalling and utterly toxic to supporting the
community of a volunteer collective project.

> Having been rear ended by a utility van, thrown off a motorbike half way
> across a roundabout and having also received abusive and threatening
> messages from people within the Debian community, I feel that the
> physical pain caused by the latter was more than the former.  Those
> people should be ashamed of themselves.

Yeah, no shit.  Your lack of awareness that *you* are that person who
should be ashamed of yourself because that's what *you* just did is
honestly mind-blowing.

-- 
Russ Allbery (rra@debian.org)               <http://www.eyrie.org/~eagle/>

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#10013

FromDaniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro>
Date2018-12-21 01:30 +0100
Message-ID<x7gRr-41X-3@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10012
On 20/12/18 23:46, Russ Allbery wrote:
> Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> writes:
>
>> and I reply with the strongest possible evidence, personal experience
>> and scientific research.
> You decided to distort a political issue that many of us feel strongly
> about to attack a policy around what to republish in project-owned forums,
> which is only on a continuum with that issue if you look for it with a
> telescope.  You did this in a way designed to provoke strong feelings and
> create moral absolutes rather than start a conversation, and you did this
> knowing full well that you were attacking a specific team inside Debian
> composed, like all Debian teams, of overworked volunteer members.  You did

Please don't misrepresent me like that.  I am not calling on anybody to
attack any team, I'm calling on people to be assertive in defending
Norbert and other individuals who have been singled out.

> this without the slightest attempt to extend an assumption of good will or
> allow for the possibility there are further things going on that you don't
> know about, and you did so with such pathetically sloppy and incomplete


The fact that people don't know about certain things going on suggests
the project leadership is deviating from the social contract.  Let's get
the policy about Planet in the open or choose to have two Planets, e.g.
"planet-curated.debian.org" and "planet-uncensored.debian.org" and each
person can choose which one they want to read.


> research that even *I* know you are leaving out substantial background,
> and I haven't been trying to follow this saga.
>
> In other words, you immediately turned the temperature up as high as you
> could go and called on other people to attack your fellow Debian
> developers on the grounds that their work is a violation of UN-recognized
> human rights (!!).

Other people have chosen to turn up the temperature.  I felt my post was
both restrained and lukewarm in comparison.

I can see that this has been both shocking and surprising to some people
and I sincerely regret that.  I would ask you to consider it from my
point of view and from some of the abusive communications I have
received recently, they are the things that have established my frame or
reference right now.


>
> That you cannot understand how completely absurd this is means that it is
> futile to try to argue this point with you on the merits.
>
> There *is* an underlying project debate here that is a real debate, namely
> the rules for participation and republication in project forums.  I think
> it's a debate we've had to the point of absurdity, but I'm not horribly
> surprised that people want to still have it, and if that had been all your
> message had been, I would have sit on my hands and not added to the noise.
>
> But you saw an opportunity to artificially strengthen your debate stance
> by comparing the Debian anti-harassment team to assassins (!!) and you
> seem completely oblivious to why this is utterly unacceptable in
> collective discussion within a project of colleagues, peers, and friends.

Without going into detail, the actions of certain figures over the last
3 months are in no way comparable to those of colleagues, peers or
friends.  The people who initiated those communications have set the
tone for this debate through their arrogance, impatience and ego, not me.


> I have no idea personally what set off Norbert's removal from Planet
> Debian.  When I said irrespective of the merits of your argument, I really
> meant that.  But *this* bothers me far more: this kind of brutal approach
> to Debian politics is hostile, nasty, and deeply hurtful to the project.


ditto for the messages certain people have sent to me and other volunteers.

Given my own personal circumstances this year, "deeply hurtful" is very
much an understatement when assessing certain communications I received,
especially considering their timing.


> If you want to have a debate about the decision of a team in Debian, you
> have an obligation to the project to conduct that debate with a certain
> basic level of mutual respect.  Asking you to not compare your fellow
> project members to assassins does not seem like a high bar!  If you aren't

The bar has been taken even lower than you think and I am not the one
who put it there.

It is in our social contract that we do not hide our problems but I
would ask people to forgive me for not laying out the sheer brutality of
it in all it's gory detail right now.  Doing so would compromise the
privacy of multiple people outside the project.

> going to do that, I for one am quite happy to make this argument about
> *your* behavior, which was appalling and utterly toxic to supporting the
> community of a volunteer collective project.

Please don't make this personal.  Notice I didn't choose to name people
individually.

>> Having been rear ended by a utility van, thrown off a motorbike half way
>> across a roundabout and having also received abusive and threatening
>> messages from people within the Debian community, I feel that the
>> physical pain caused by the latter was more than the former.  Those
>> people should be ashamed of themselves.
> Yeah, no shit.  Your lack of awareness that *you* are that person who
> should be ashamed of yourself because that's what *you* just did is
> honestly mind-blowing.
>
My message was to repudiate censorship and support Norbert, a call for
people to stand up is not the same as a call for people to abuse and
threaten any team in Debian.  I sincerely hope that people are assertive
about the facts and principles and not abusive in their responses.

As I said, my frame of reference right now has been largely established
by the communications I received from other people.

Regards,

Daniel

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#10014

From"Paul R. Tagliamonte" <paultag@gmail.com>
Date2018-12-21 01:50 +0100
Message-ID<x7haN-482-3@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10012
I concur with Russ in the strongest of terms.

I, too have no idea why a blog was removed, but I think we absolutely
can and should if the post crosses lines.

We, as a group of individuals working on a project together with
shared resources working to maintain a constructive atmosphere must
never be conflated with a Government censoring speech.

We are not a Government. Please don't conflate Debian ensuring we have
a healthy community with Government censorship, and conflating a blog
being removed from project resources with the killing of a journalist.
It cheapens the death of those who are killed by repressive regimes
fighting for their freedoms.

   Paul

On Thu, Dec 20, 2018 at 6:46 PM Russ Allbery <rra@debian.org> wrote:
>
> Daniel Pocock <daniel@pocock.pro> writes:
>
> > and I reply with the strongest possible evidence, personal experience
> > and scientific research.
>
> You decided to distort a political issue that many of us feel strongly
> about to attack a policy around what to republish in project-owned forums,
> which is only on a continuum with that issue if you look for it with a
> telescope.  You did this in a way designed to provoke strong feelings and
> create moral absolutes rather than start a conversation, and you did this
> knowing full well that you were attacking a specific team inside Debian
> composed, like all Debian teams, of overworked volunteer members.  You did
> this without the slightest attempt to extend an assumption of good will or
> allow for the possibility there are further things going on that you don't
> know about, and you did so with such pathetically sloppy and incomplete
> research that even *I* know you are leaving out substantial background,
> and I haven't been trying to follow this saga.
>
> In other words, you immediately turned the temperature up as high as you
> could go and called on other people to attack your fellow Debian
> developers on the grounds that their work is a violation of UN-recognized
> human rights (!!).
>
> That you cannot understand how completely absurd this is means that it is
> futile to try to argue this point with you on the merits.
>
> There *is* an underlying project debate here that is a real debate, namely
> the rules for participation and republication in project forums.  I think
> it's a debate we've had to the point of absurdity, but I'm not horribly
> surprised that people want to still have it, and if that had been all your
> message had been, I would have sit on my hands and not added to the noise.
>
> But you saw an opportunity to artificially strengthen your debate stance
> by comparing the Debian anti-harassment team to assassins (!!) and you
> seem completely oblivious to why this is utterly unacceptable in
> collective discussion within a project of colleagues, peers, and friends.
>
> I have no idea personally what set off Norbert's removal from Planet
> Debian.  When I said irrespective of the merits of your argument, I really
> meant that.  But *this* bothers me far more: this kind of brutal approach
> to Debian politics is hostile, nasty, and deeply hurtful to the project.
>
> If you want to have a debate about the decision of a team in Debian, you
> have an obligation to the project to conduct that debate with a certain
> basic level of mutual respect.  Asking you to not compare your fellow
> project members to assassins does not seem like a high bar!  If you aren't
> going to do that, I for one am quite happy to make this argument about
> *your* behavior, which was appalling and utterly toxic to supporting the
> community of a volunteer collective project.
>
> > Having been rear ended by a utility van, thrown off a motorbike half way
> > across a roundabout and having also received abusive and threatening
> > messages from people within the Debian community, I feel that the
> > physical pain caused by the latter was more than the former.  Those
> > people should be ashamed of themselves.
>
> Yeah, no shit.  Your lack of awareness that *you* are that person who
> should be ashamed of yourself because that's what *you* just did is
> honestly mind-blowing.
>
> --
> Russ Allbery (rra@debian.org)               <http://www.eyrie.org/~eagle/>
>


-- 
:wq

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#10117

FromSteve McIntyre <steve@einval.com>
Date2019-01-04 14:40 +0100
Message-ID<xcxRD-PH-7@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10014
On Fri, Jan 04, 2019 at 01:39:27PM +0100, Christian Kastner wrote:
>On 21/12/2018 01.27, Paul R. Tagliamonte wrote:
>> We are not a Government.
>
>We don't have a _Sovereign_ Government, but a Government we most
>certainly have.
>
>We are a body of people bound by a Constitution; this body has
>Officials acting on its behalf; we vote to represent our interests; we
>delegate powers; we subject ourselves to powers, etc.

Only for very limited areas. Debian does not have the power to tell us
how to live outside of our collaboration with Debian. It's a very
limited organisation. The worst censure that can be applied is to be
removed from that organisation. That does not compare to the possible
removal of liberty (or even life!) that is amongst a Government's
powers.

>> Please don't conflate Debian ensuring we have a healthy community 
>> with Government censorship,
>
>This action was not performed  by the community, but by an Official
>acting Debian's behalf. Consequently, it _was_ government censorship.

Rubbish. A refusal by Debian to publish on somebody's behalf is not at
all the same as government censorship. A government can remove the
right to publish at all.

-- 
Steve McIntyre, Cambridge, UK.                                steve@einval.com
You lock the door
And throw away the key
There's someone in my head but it's not me 

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#10118

FromScott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com>
Date2019-01-04 15:00 +0100
Message-ID<xcyaZ-Wp-9@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10117
On Friday, January 04, 2019 01:34:41 PM Steve McIntyre wrote:
> On Fri, Jan 04, 2019 at 01:39:27PM +0100, Christian Kastner wrote:
> >On 21/12/2018 01.27, Paul R. Tagliamonte wrote:
> >> We are not a Government.
> >
> >We don't have a _Sovereign_ Government, but a Government we most
> >certainly have.
> >
> >We are a body of people bound by a Constitution; this body has
> >Officials acting on its behalf; we vote to represent our interests; we
> >delegate powers; we subject ourselves to powers, etc.
> 
> Only for very limited areas. Debian does not have the power to tell us
> how to live outside of our collaboration with Debian. It's a very
> limited organisation. The worst censure that can be applied is to be
> removed from that organisation. That does not compare to the possible
> removal of liberty (or even life!) that is amongst a Government's
> powers.
> 
> >> Please don't conflate Debian ensuring we have a healthy community
> >> with Government censorship,
> >
> >This action was not performed  by the community, but by an Official
> >acting Debian's behalf. Consequently, it _was_ government censorship.
> 
> Rubbish. A refusal by Debian to publish on somebody's behalf is not at
> all the same as government censorship. A government can remove the
> right to publish at all.

If censorship isn't the right word (and at best, it's not ideal), what's the 
right word for the chilling effect on willingness to speak in public due to 
the risk of being ejected from an organization like Debian?

Perhaps if we can get past "it's not censorship" and say what it is, then we 
can make some progress.

Note that I'm not talking about refusing to republish (I know what that is).  
I'm talking about declining to speak based on concern about disproportionate 
reaction from our leadership/delegates for doing so (I'm also not arguing that 
did or didn't happen in any recent situation - I am trying to see if there is 
some consensus to be found on at least how to talk about it).

Scott K 

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#10127

FromRuss Allbery <rra@debian.org>
Date2019-01-04 19:20 +0100
Message-ID<xcCeB-3ym-1@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10118
Scott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com> writes:

> If censorship isn't the right word (and at best, it's not ideal), what's
> the right word for the chilling effect on willingness to speak in public
> due to the risk of being ejected from an organization like Debian?

Being an adult.

-- 
Russ Allbery (rra@debian.org)               <http://www.eyrie.org/~eagle/>

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#10128

FromRoberto C. Sánchez <roberto@debian.org>
Date2019-01-04 19:40 +0100
Message-ID<xcCxY-3EP-23@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10127
On Fri, Jan 04, 2019 at 10:17:56AM -0800, Russ Allbery wrote:
> Scott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com> writes:
> 
> > If censorship isn't the right word (and at best, it's not ideal), what's
> > the right word for the chilling effect on willingness to speak in public
> > due to the risk of being ejected from an organization like Debian?
> 
> Being an adult.
> 
Russ,

That was uncalled for and inconsistent with the high bar you have set
for yourself in so many other discussions.

The word Scott is trying to find is most likely 'boycott':

  Boycott \Boy"cott\, n.
     The process, fact, or pressure of boycotting; a combining to
     withhold or prevent dealing or social intercourse with a
     tradesman, employer, etc.; social and business interdiction
     for the purpose of coercion.
     [1913 Webster]

Regards,

-Roberto

-- 
Roberto C. Sánchez

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#10130

FromRuss Allbery <rra@debian.org>
Date2019-01-04 19:50 +0100
Message-ID<xcCHE-3Ir-3@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10128
Roberto C. Sánchez <roberto@debian.org> writes:
> On Fri, Jan 04, 2019 at 10:17:56AM -0800, Russ Allbery wrote:
>> Scott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com> writes:

>>> If censorship isn't the right word (and at best, it's not ideal), what's
>>> the right word for the chilling effect on willingness to speak in public
>>> due to the risk of being ejected from an organization like Debian?

>> Being an adult.

> That was uncalled for and inconsistent with the high bar you have set
> for yourself in so many other discussions.

How was it uncalled for?  It says exactly what I meant.  I'm not saying
anything at all about Scott's behavior; it's the very simple answer to his
question.

I apologize for apparently giving you the impression that it was an attack
on Scott.  I probably should have unpacked it a lot more.  But having to
mediate your behavior to follow standards that you may not agree with or
face consequences around what organizations will have you as a member is
*exactly* being an adult.  This is how the world works.

You have to watch what you say at work, or you might be fired.  You have
to be careful of what you say among groups, or that group may eject you.
You have to follow the standards of an organization of which you're a
member, or that organization will expel you.

This is just ordinary, perfectly normal adult behavior.  Everyone watches
their behavior and their wording all the time.

The idea that there is any forum in which people interact as adults where
there is no chilling effect on one's unfettered speech and where no one
has to watch their language, tone, or presentation is pure fantasy
nonsense.  Even 4chan has social norms and consequences for going against
them.

People seem to feel they're unreasonably put-upon by having to think about
what they're saying *at all*, but this is absurd.  Everyone else in the
world is doing this all the time.

-- 
Russ Allbery (rra@debian.org)               <http://www.eyrie.org/~eagle/>

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#10132

FromRoberto C. Sánchez <roberto@debian.org>
Date2019-01-04 20:20 +0100
Message-ID<xcDaF-47B-3@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10130
On Fri, Jan 04, 2019 at 10:47:05AM -0800, Russ Allbery wrote:
> Roberto C. Sánchez <roberto@debian.org> writes:
> > On Fri, Jan 04, 2019 at 10:17:56AM -0800, Russ Allbery wrote:
> >> Scott Kitterman <debian@kitterman.com> writes:
> 
> >>> If censorship isn't the right word (and at best, it's not ideal), what's
> >>> the right word for the chilling effect on willingness to speak in public
> >>> due to the risk of being ejected from an organization like Debian?
> 
> >> Being an adult.
> 
> > That was uncalled for and inconsistent with the high bar you have set
> > for yourself in so many other discussions.
> 
> How was it uncalled for?  It says exactly what I meant.  I'm not saying
> anything at all about Scott's behavior; it's the very simple answer to his
> question.
> 
> I apologize for apparently giving you the impression that it was an attack
> on Scott.  I probably should have unpacked it a lot more.  But having to
> mediate your behavior to follow standards that you may not agree with or
> face consequences around what organizations will have you as a member is
> *exactly* being an adult.  This is how the world works.
> 
> You have to watch what you say at work, or you might be fired.  You have
> to be careful of what you say among groups, or that group may eject you.
> You have to follow the standards of an organization of which you're a
> member, or that organization will expel you.
> 
> This is just ordinary, perfectly normal adult behavior.  Everyone watches
> their behavior and their wording all the time.
> 
This explanation puts your earlier comment in a differnet light.  Thank
you for elaborating.

> The idea that there is any forum in which people interact as adults where
> there is no chilling effect on one's unfettered speech and where no one
> has to watch their language, tone, or presentation is pure fantasy
> nonsense.  Even 4chan has social norms and consequences for going against
> them.
> 
> People seem to feel they're unreasonably put-upon by having to think about
> what they're saying *at all*, but this is absurd.  Everyone else in the
> world is doing this all the time.
> 
I think that perhaps the source of Scott's concern (and to an extent my
own) is that it is not necessarily obvious where the boundary is when it
comes to Debian.  The uncertainty here is the problem.  I deal with it
by trying to remain well away from the boundary.  However, I can see how
some who view Debian as a forum for social interaction in addition to
technical interaction are rightly concerned.

Russel Stuart's earlier message on "Expulsions Policy" got me thinking
that it would be enormously helpful if there were a way to codify a
community standard the way that we have codified package policies.  At
least that would be more clear and less ambiguous than what we have now,
in the same way that writing down package policies does for the quality
of packages in the archive.

Sadly, I don't think that is in the realm of the possible.

Regards,

-Roberto

-- 
Roberto C. Sánchez

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#10135

FromRuss Allbery <rra@debian.org>
Date2019-01-04 21:10 +0100
Message-ID<xcDX4-4Dd-11@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10132
Roberto C. Sánchez <roberto@debian.org> writes:

> I think that perhaps the source of Scott's concern (and to an extent my
> own) is that it is not necessarily obvious where the boundary is when it
> comes to Debian.  The uncertainty here is the problem.  I deal with it
> by trying to remain well away from the boundary.  However, I can see how
> some who view Debian as a forum for social interaction in addition to
> technical interaction are rightly concerned.

I completely agree that it's uncertain.  I don't think this is only in
Debian; I think it's uncertain in society as a whole right now.  We're
going through a particularly tumultuous period in politics in many of the
countries from which Debian contributors come, and there's a ton of heated
political statements and hard feelings and fear-based attempts to rally
various political forces, and it's all very uncomfortable and upsetting.

None of us can avoid being affected by that discomfort and upsetness.

Standards are indeed shifting.  This happens all the time in human
society, and it's part of the discomfort of getting older.  I have had
older relatives who used various racial slurs without even thinking about
it, which would be totally unacceptable today.  I suspect that towards the
end of their lives they were pretty irritated about having to change the
way that they always talked in order to avoid facing social consequences.

The uncertainty is real, and it's upsetting, and I think we should all be
conscious of that.

But, well, I'm pretty dubious that we're going to be able to completely
remove the uncertainty, because human society is complicated and there's
some baseline level of uncertainty.  This is *particularly* true in an
international project where we're coming from far, far different social
backgrounds and dealing with different local issues.  Part of the
difficulty, but also the joy, of being part of a project like this is that
we all get a crash course in cultural sensitivity and become much better
at understanding the perspectives of people from far different cultures,
and finding ways to work with them (sometimes haltingly).  It's a very
valuable life skill, and it can be really exciting when one pulls it off
successfully, but it's real work!  It's hard!  It's worth admitting to
ourselves that it's hard.

And some of us are reaching farther and doing more work than others.  For
example, I'm from the United States, which for better or worse has a
tendency to get its culture and politics all over everyone else to an
extent that a lot of people are vaguely aware of US cultural conventions
because they're ubiquitous.  To take an obvious example already raised,
we're having this whole discussion in my native language.  That's a huge,
huge advantage for me!  And, to take another example, the only reason why
I'm not utterly oblivious about, say, political tensions between Greece
and Turkey is because I happen to have some friends who pulled me aside
and educated me before I made a fool of myself.  Because I have the
privilege of assuming that people will follow my cultural conventions most
of the time, I don't *have* to learn things like that to be successful.

That doesn't make me a bad person (or a good person); it just makes me
lucky in that particular way.

I personally believe pretty strongly that, as a matter of fairness, we
should distribute the work more evenly.  Therefore, I try to go learn
things that I don't really *need* to learn, so that I can try to meet
people closer to halfway.  I've been lucky enough in life that it's never
going to be halfway, but I can at least get a bit closer.

That's where I'm coming from in this.  The uncertainty is real, and I get
why people find it upsetting.  I totally understand why it feels like a
strain, and not particularly fun when people just want to write code.  But
I also think it's the price of being an international community, and
*someone* is going to have to pay that price, and to the extent that
people like me don't do our part of the heavy lifting, that price falls on
other people very disproportionately, and to me that's unfair.

We should be gracious with each other, and understand that we're not all
international diplomats, and that we're going to make mistakes and barge
into each other's political conflicts and be that person who says
something horribly offensive.  And we apologize and forgive and move on as
best we can and keep this whole amazing project going.  But it *is* work,
and yes, we're asking everyone to do work, and yes, that's a real burden.
I don't think that's really avoidable; it's just a question of how we
distribute the work.

My general philosophy on this is that insofar as I have the energy, I
should step up and do my part of the work.  And when I don't have the
energy, I don't have to do the work, but maybe I should also consider
staying a bit more quiet.  I don't have to; I can just speak my mind
anyway, but when I do, there's a higher than normal chance I might need to
apologize afterwards.  And that's okay!  It's okay to decide you're not
going to try to be diplomatic and are going to risk it, and sometimes
that's okay, and sometimes you're going to have to say later "whoops, that
wasn't wise, I'm sorry."  As long as the apology is there, and is sincere,
I think it will all work out in the end.  There's a lot of good will in
this project; people are not particularly eager to believe the worst of
other people.

But if one starts taking the position of never apologizing for anything
because demanding apologies is unfair and it's not their responsibility to
assuage easily-offended people.... whooboy.  That's not going to go
anywhere good.

-- 
Russ Allbery (rra@debian.org)               <http://www.eyrie.org/~eagle/>

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#10170

FromWouter Verhelst <wouter@debian.org>
Date2019-01-06 13:20 +0100
Message-ID<xdfzj-2iN-1@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10135
On Fri, Jan 04, 2019 at 12:04:55PM -0800, Russ Allbery wrote:
[...]
> maybe I should also consider
> staying a bit more quiet.  I don't have to; I can just speak my mind
> anyway, but when I do, there's a higher than normal chance I might need to
> apologize afterwards.

Well, maybe not in your case ;-)

Thanks for putting it so eloquently again, Russ.

-- 
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#10150

FromAnthony Towns <aj@erisian.com.au>
Date2019-01-05 05:00 +0100
Message-ID<xcLhT-ql-3@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10130
On Fri, Jan 04, 2019 at 10:47:05AM -0800, Russ Allbery wrote:
> People seem to feel they're unreasonably put-upon by having to think about
> what they're saying *at all*, but this is absurd.  Everyone else in the
> world is doing this all the time.

There are times when you don't have to think about what you're saying
before you say it; that situation is often called being "among friends",
or "in a safe space", or "able to let your guard down".

I think it's probably news to a lot of people that Debian isn't that
sort of a situation today.

(IMO, one of the problems with planet aggregators is it changes your
personal blog from being a place where you can say whatever you want
and have it only affect yourself, to a place where you have to watch
what you say because it's automatically pushed to strangers who are only
interested in very particular parts of who you are)

Cheers,
aj

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#10151

FromRuss Allbery <rra@debian.org>
Date2019-01-05 05:10 +0100
Message-ID<xcLrz-Iz-3@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10150
Anthony Towns <aj@erisian.com.au> writes:

> There are times when you don't have to think about what you're saying
> before you say it; that situation is often called being "among friends",
> or "in a safe space", or "able to let your guard down".

> I think it's probably news to a lot of people that Debian isn't that
> sort of a situation today.

But of *course* we're not!  The project is more than 1,000 people!
There's no way that is a situation where we're all among friends and can
completely let our guard down and say whatever we think without any
filters.

What you're talking about is trust, and we can certainly try to build
trust within the project, and part of that is giving other people the
benefit of the doubt, assuming good will, and so forth.  To the extent
that we can achieve that uniformly across everyone in the project, that's
great.  But a project with a couple dozen people can reach a much higher
level of trust than a project of over a thousand people.  As the scale
gets larger, the level of baseline trust we can establish is necessarily
going to be lower.

Trust is complicated and involves a lot of factors.  It's not just the
assumption of good will, it's also the chances that someone else agrees
with you politically, has the same motives that you do, cares about the
same goals that you do, and so forth.  Even things like sharing a native
language or an economic background or a national origin help build trust.
When the project gets larger, some of those parts of trust will lessen
necessarily because we have a wider variety of members.  It's sad in a
way, but it's inherent in size.  1,000 people is a *lot* of people.
(Obviously, there's a smaller core of people who participate in
discussions like this, but it's still a *lot* of people.)

I'm afraid Debian as a project is not in "small gathering with your close
friends" territory.  It's in "small town" territory.  The good news is
that this means we have way more people doing way more interesting work,
and way more cultures and thus more interesting things to learn.  The bad
news is that, yes, the level of baseline trust is a bit lower, which means
that we have to be more polite and more thoughtful and more, well,
"civilized" in the old definition of "the way people behave in cities."

> (IMO, one of the problems with planet aggregators is it changes your
> personal blog from being a place where you can say whatever you want and
> have it only affect yourself, to a place where you have to watch what
> you say because it's automatically pushed to strangers who are only
> interested in very particular parts of who you are)

Yup.  And if you don't want that effect, well, don't aggregate your blog.
It's okay to not aggregate your blog!

-- 
Russ Allbery (rra@debian.org)               <http://www.eyrie.org/~eagle/>

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#10156

FromIan Jackson <ijackson@chiark.greenend.org.uk>
Date2019-01-05 18:20 +0100
Message-ID<xcXM5-8cS-1@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10150
Anthony Towns writes ("Re: Censorship in Debian"):
> On Fri, Jan 04, 2019 at 10:47:05AM -0800, Russ Allbery wrote:
> > People seem to feel they're unreasonably put-upon by having to think about
> > what they're saying *at all*, but this is absurd.  Everyone else in the
> > world is doing this all the time.
> 
> There are times when you don't have to think about what you're saying
> before you say it; that situation is often called being "among friends",
> or "in a safe space", or "able to let your guard down".
> 
> I think it's probably news to a lot of people that Debian isn't that
> sort of a situation today.

Yes.  I think you have put your finger on it.

For a significant minority of Debian's contributors - including me -
Debian definitely used to be a place where we didn't have to think
about what we were saying.


The effects of that unbridled expression on other (potential) members
of the community was not something we thought about much.  But, at
least speaking for myself:

I have been hearing from a lot of people whose participation I care
about - often, people who already have lots of shit to deal with in
wider society.  Those people are saying that it would really help them
to have spaces like Debian have a nicer atmosphere, so that there is
less risk of being harshly criticised and where having a thick skin,
and plenty of emotional resilience, is not so necessary.

So I have been (haltingly) trying to improve my own behaviour.  Yes,
that's work.  Being pleasant to people whose ideas I consider
seriously wrong does not come naturally to me.  Sometimes, I fail.
But now that I and others in Debian are making this effort, I can see
the benefits - on both small and large scale.


But it's not enough for just those of us who have been convinced of
the value of this change, to try to make that change personally and to
help each other.

Unfortunately in a community of thousands there will inevitably be
some people who will continue to do what is harmful, but easy and
convenient and fun for themselves, and who will - at least initially
- reject suggestions that they too may need to think hard about how
their behaviour affects others people (and particular, how it affects
people who are not like themselves).

It is indeed natural for people to resent it, when previously they
could do what they liked, but now they are being being asked to
think about and moderate what they say and do,

So without some kind of consequences, unfortunate behaviour will
continue.  It is in fact very natural human behaviour to push
boundaries like that.  Even very agreeable people will sometimes
misbehave to the point of being mildly told off.

Very competently toxic people will calculate precisely what they can
get away with: they will ride roughshod over weak victims or in
situations with less visibility; when challenged by an authority who
can impose consequences, they will lie and obfuscate and distract as
much as they can get away with.  They will turn the dispute about
their personal bad behaviour into a big poltical fight so as to
increase the cost of enforcing the rules against them.  And if that
fails they will do precisely as much as is needed to avoid further
punishment.


Maybe even such a person could provide a net positive contribution,
but only by the community maintaining a constant threat of punishment.
(At least for many years, until perhaps their personal growth changes
the situation.)  That is exhausting for the moderators who are
responsible for policing the offender.

Particularly, patterns of lying, selective compliance, and so on, make
that job very hard, especially if the moderators are subject to
oversight by a body of largely naive and detached people who are
unfamiliar with how toxic people operate generally, and who cannot
fully and properly analyse every reported incident.

Perhaps it is better for the world as a whole for such a person to be
given the very serious shock of being permanently ejected.  That will
teach them that trying to constantly play the exact line (of getting
away with things) does carry a serious risk of serious consequence.
Maybe the next community they get involved with will find them a more
positive influence, and easier to deal with.  And at least the
community they were ejected from is spared the work of educating
(and fighting) the unwilling.


Ian.

-- 
Ian Jackson <ijackson@chiark.greenend.org.uk>   These opinions are my own.

If I emailed you from an address @fyvzl.net or @evade.org.uk, that is
a private address which bypasses my fierce spamfilter.

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#10166

FromMartin Steigerwald <martin@lichtvoll.de>
Date2019-01-06 00:50 +0100
Message-ID<xd3Rv-3pk-3@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10156
Dear Ian.

Ian Jackson - 05.01.19, 18:17:
> Very competently toxic people will calculate precisely what they can
> get away with: they will ride roughshod over weak victims or in
> situations with less visibility; when challenged by an authority who
> can impose consequences, they will lie and obfuscate and distract as
> much as they can get away with.  They will turn the dispute about
> their personal bad behaviour into a big poltical fight so as to
> increase the cost of enforcing the rules against them.  And if that
> fails they will do precisely as much as is needed to avoid further
> punishment.

Have you actually really seen such kind of behavior?

I disagree with calling people toxic.

Also I am not sure how you'd come to know about about any agenda behind 
the behavior. How do you know about the intentions?

One part of the code of conduct as I got it is to assume good 
intentions, here, if I got you correctly you assume bad, harmful 
intentions for at least some people, people that you call toxic.

I can concur that people are different, have different view-points, 
different ways to communicate, different language, different behavior. But 
people aren't inherently good or bad or toxic. Well there are people who 
just troll, but other than that?

For me, any code of conduct and its enforcement needs to be based on 
actual behavior, never on assuming intentions or assuming about how 
people are.

I just maintain some packages, but I am quite concerned about the 
current discussions on debian-project and other public mailing lists.

I am quite confused and don't really know what is going on. I feel kinda 
overwhelmed by all I read so far and it does not give me a clear picture 
on what is actually really going on here. That it appears that a good 
portion of discussions happen on debian-private or other private 
channels does not appear to improve transparency as well.

So just all the best for anyone in the position to do something 
meaningful to help improving the situation. At the moment I feel kinda 
uncomfortable about the Debian project.

Ciao,
-- 
Martin

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#10168

FromRuss Allbery <rra@debian.org>
Date2019-01-06 01:30 +0100
Message-ID<xd4ud-3RK-1@gated-at.bofh.it>
In reply to#10166
Martin Steigerwald <martin@lichtvoll.de> writes:
> Ian Jackson - 05.01.19, 18:17:

>> Very competently toxic people will calculate precisely what they can
>> get away with: they will ride roughshod over weak victims or in
>> situations with less visibility; when challenged by an authority who
>> can impose consequences, they will lie and obfuscate and distract as
>> much as they can get away with.  They will turn the dispute about their
>> personal bad behaviour into a big poltical fight so as to increase the
>> cost of enforcing the rules against them.  And if that fails they will
>> do precisely as much as is needed to avoid further punishment.

> Have you actually really seen such kind of behavior?

Yes.

Worse, I was young and stupid and didn't recognize what was going on, so I
let myself get taken in by it and made excuses for them and thus became
part of the problem.  I've hopefully gotten better at recognizing the
signs earlier now.

I don't think this is a problem that Debian is commonly plagued by, but
there are absolutely people in this world who I don't want to have
anything to do with, and if they join a community I'm a member of and that
community won't eject them, I will leave.  Because life is too short to be
on edge all the time, to be in a community that I cannot trust at all, or
to pour my emotional resources into that kind of scary black hole.

Hopefully eventually they'll realize how much they hurt other people, but
they can work on realizing that somewhere far away from me and anyone and
anything I care about.  I just want to have some fun working on free
software and maybe changing the world a little bit, hopefully in the
company of some people I can call friends.  At no point in that process
did I sign up to be part of a community psychological counseling effort
for dangerous people.

I am, to be clear, saying this in the abstract, and please don't read
particular people from the current discussion into this comment.  But you
asked a general question about whether such people truly exist in the
world, and the answer is yes, they do.

Also, to be clear, if you're reading this and thinking "shit, am I one of
those people?", you're not.  Almost by definition.  I have never seen
anyone who acted that way ask themselves that question.  One of their most
defining characteristics is that nothing, *nothing* is *ever* their fault
(although some of them can fake convincing apologies).

-- 
Russ Allbery (rra@debian.org)               <http://www.eyrie.org/~eagle/>

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