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  Had our first poly experience spantoja9353@gmail.com - 2017-12-22 18:46 -0800
    Re: Had our first poly experience CaseOfEmergency <casusmina@rozewater.eu> - 2018-01-01 19:57 +0100
      Re: Had our first poly experience Shannon Pantoja <spantoja9353@gmail.com> - 2018-01-04 11:11 -0800
        Re: Had our first poly experience Chickpea <chickpea@gmx.co.uk> - 2018-01-05 18:34 +0000
          Re: Had our first poly experience spope384@gmail.com (Steve Pope) - 2018-01-06 06:13 +0000
        Re: Had our first poly experience CaseOfEmergency <casusmina@rozewater.eu> - 2018-03-15 14:14 +0100
        Re: Had our first poly experience Arif Muhammad <glamourme9@gmail.com> - 2021-04-30 15:38 -0700
          Re: Had our first poly experience umar <866013149e@python.interpring.com> - 2021-05-02 13:34 +0000
            Re: Had our first poly experience Chickpea <chickpea@gmx.co.uk> - 2021-07-28 21:32 +0100
    Re: Had our first poly experience "Guy W. Thomas" <xangoexu@gmail.com> - 2018-01-03 23:09 -0800
      Re: Had our first poly experience Shannon Pantoja <spantoja9353@gmail.com> - 2018-01-04 11:19 -0800
        Re: Had our first poly experience steverahm815@gmail.com - 2018-04-25 11:52 -0700
          Re: Had our first poly experience Arif Muhammad <glamourme9@gmail.com> - 2021-04-30 15:46 -0700
    Had our first poly experience "Mike E." <michaeleckstine@gmail.com> - 2018-06-05 11:10 -0700
    Had our first poly experience novalance50@gmail.com - 2019-02-12 11:11 -0800
      Re: Had our first poly experience Chickpea <chickpea@gmx.co.uk> - 2019-03-01 15:03 +0000
        Re: Had our first poly experience kludge@panix.com (Scott Dorsey) - 2019-03-03 18:40 -0500
          Re: Had our first poly experience Chickpea <chickpea@gmx.co.uk> - 2019-03-10 14:39 +0000
    Had our first poly experience Shwetaabh Mishra <iamshwetaabh@gmail.com> - 2019-11-17 04:06 -0800
    Re: Had our first poly experience "M. Arif" <glamourme9@gmail.com> - 2022-08-25 18:59 -0700
    Had our first poly experience "M. Arif" <glamourme9@gmail.com> - 2022-09-07 18:12 -0700
    Had our first poly experience "M. Arif" <glamourme9@gmail.com> - 2022-09-07 18:16 -0700

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#32243 — Had our first poly experience

Me and my husband are 33 and 34 and have been together for 13 years. we live Texas but will be moving to orlando soon. We had our first poly experience with another couple and it was great. I only wished it lasted longer. It's so hard find like minded people. We want to make a real connection with people, not one night stands. Any advice?

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#32244

Op 2017-12-23 om 03:46 schreef spantoja9353@gmail.com:
> Me and my husband are 33 and 34 and have been together for 13 years. we live Texas but will be moving to orlando soon. We had our first poly experience with another couple and it was great. I only wished it lasted longer. It's so hard find like minded people. We want to make a real connection with people, not one night stands. Any advice?
> 

Yes, come to Amsterdam .

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#32246

I've always wanted to go to Amsterdam! It's on my to do list that's for sure, but I don't know about living there since I don't know much about the place. It sounds amazing. 

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#32248

In alt.polyamory,  (Shannon Pantoja) wrote in
<95eb9181-9472-4a69-b578-7ffc027810f9@googlegroups.com>::

>I've always wanted to go to Amsterdam! It's on my to do list that's for sure, but I don't know about living there since I don't know much about the place. It sounds amazing. 

I lived there for a year.  Cheaper than London, but it's still a capital
city.  Great city- friendly, and compact, and a superb transport
network.
-- 
Men are born ignorant, not stupid; they are made stupid by education.
    - Bertrand Russell

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#32249

Chickpea  <chickpea@gmx.co.uk> wrote:

[ Amsterdam! ]

Cool....

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#32257

Op 2018-01-04 om 20:11 schreef Shannon Pantoja:
> I've always wanted to go to Amsterdam! It's on my to do list that's for sure, but I don't know about living there since I don't know much about the place. It sounds amazing.
> 

Call / whatsapp:   +31 6 579 19 759

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#32441

Hi' anyone can read my text what I am writing. I am fully new to Polyamory and want to get more knowledge. If any one like to have interest but may not be because of race, language, nationality, religion. I goodbye to all conflicts and feel free and open minded. I am from Karachi, Pakistan. It is not easy to get in touch because of long distance, but if relationship go deeper then we can come nearest together. please my blog in polyamorycom/thread. If have interest please try to have personal relationship

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#32447

On 2021-04-30, Arif Muhammad <glamourme9@gmail.com> wrote:
> Hi' anyone can read my text what I am writing. I am fully new to 
> Polyamory and want to get more knowledge. If any one like to have 
> interest but may not be because of race, language, nationality, 
> religion. I goodbye to all conflicts and feel free and open minded. 
> I am from Karachi, Pakistan. It is not easy to get in touch because 
> of long distance, but if relationship go deeper then we can come 
> nearest together. please my blog in polyamorycom/thread. If have 
> interest please try to have personal relationship

I've just returned to Usenet after a long abence, so perhaps I'm not the
best qualified person to welcome you, but welcome to the group!

I can't imagine what living as poly in Pakistan must be like.


umar

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#32465

In alt.polyamory,  (umar) wrote in
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>
>I can't imagine what living as poly in Pakistan must be like.

Cautious?
-- 
We are living in a world today where lemonade is made from artificial flavours
 and furniture polish is made from real lemons.  - Alfred E. Neuman

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#32245

On 12/22/2017 6:46 PM, spantoja9353@gmail.com wrote:
> Me and my husband are 33 and 34 and have been together for 13 years. we live Texas but will be moving to orlando soon. We had our first poly experience with another couple and it was great. I only wished it lasted longer. It's so hard find like minded people. We want to make a real connection with people, not one night stands. Any advice?
> 
It's hard to tell exactly what you mean by your first poly experience. 
It might be helpful to talk about that a little more. Some of us manage 
long-distance relationships. I met one of my partners right here. I 
lived in the SF Bay Area and she lived in San Diego. We manages a long 
distance relationship for about a year and then she moved up here with 
her partners. We lived close to each other for several years, but when 
her mother started needing more help, she moved back to San Diego. It's 
difficult for me since I don't see her much. She doesn't seem to need as 
much time close to each other as I do. However we still feel connected 
and things will work out.

I wouldn't mind finding another local partner, but I don't appear to 
want to work on it very much. If you're just looking for a regular hook 
up (there's nothing wrong with that) there are still some dating sites 
that have poly members or specifically cater to poly people. At least it 
used to be I'm not really current. I'd say hang around here and 
participate but there just isn't that many regulars around anymore. I 
only drop in occasionally to see if there's any traffic. This used to be 
a major part of my social life.

-- 

Guy W. Thomas
San Leandro, CA
http://www.xango.org http://stonebender.livejournal.com/

"There's a rule in acting called, 'Don't play the result.' If you
have a character who's going to end up in a certain place, don't
play that until you get there. Play each scene and each beat as it
comes. And that's what you do in life: You don't play the result."
     -- Michael J. Fox

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#32247

Thank you for your input. I wonder if polyamory is more socially acceptable in your area. I don't know if i would consider a long distance relationship because I feel like I would need to see them more often. Maybe I'm a little needy, but I'm very affectionate. And by poly experience,  I mean me and my husband having sex with another couple. We were looking for a couple that would be interested in something more than just a hook up, however the couple was just looking for a hook up. Our feeling were hurt a little but we certainly don't regret our experience. Just wished it could have lasted longer

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#32262

We are venturing into the poly world although we are older {me} and younger {her}. We are in Daytona so feel free to contact after that move to Orlando 

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#32442

I  am from Karachi, Pakistan. I have no knowledge in Poly, if you like to have personal relationship you are always welcome, you may follow me at polyamory.com/politeme  thread post.

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#32278

Maybe I'm a little in the dark, but to me poly as a lifestyle is a considerable relationship commitment. While having sex is a definite thrill, romantic relationships fade in my experience and what is left is a series of personal decisions to love each other despite smelling farts and picking up underwear off the floor. 

Sexual encounters are fun, and if you found a nice couple to spend time with, foster the relationship, and build a life together.

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#32350

Yes I'm a single soldier in the army I'm open to a polyamorous relationship

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#32351

In alt.polyamory,  (novalance50@gmail.com) wrote in
<d542469a-0a8a-488d-b59f-ce196975b403@googlegroups.com>::

>Yes I'm a single soldier in the army I'm open to a polyamorous relationship

OK, but this is a support and discussion group, it's *not* a dating
site.  Tell us about yourself, your experiences, etc, ask questions, but
no trawling for unicorns.

-- 
"There is only one boss, the customer. And he can fire everybody in
the company from the chairman on down, simply by spending his money
somewhere else." -- Sam Walton

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#32352

Chickpea  <chickpea@gmx.co.uk> wrote:
>In alt.polyamory,  (novalance50@gmail.com) wrote in
><d542469a-0a8a-488d-b59f-ce196975b403@googlegroups.com>::
>
>>Yes I'm a single soldier in the army I'm open to a polyamorous relationship
>
>OK, but this is a support and discussion group, it's *not* a dating
>site.  Tell us about yourself, your experiences, etc, ask questions, but
>no trawling for unicorns.

I think he or she is replying to an older post from someone who was trawling 
for unicorns themselves.  Not that I'd turn down a unicorn myself now and then.
--scott

-- 
"C'est un Nagra. C'est suisse, et tres, tres precis."

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#32353

In alt.polyamory,  (Scott Dorsey) wrote in
<q5holr$fe6$1@panix2.panix.com>::

>Chickpea  <chickpea@gmx.co.uk> wrote:
>>In alt.polyamory,  (novalance50@gmail.com) wrote in
>><d542469a-0a8a-488d-b59f-ce196975b403@googlegroups.com>::
>>
>>>Yes I'm a single soldier in the army I'm open to a polyamorous relationship
>>
>>OK, but this is a support and discussion group, it's *not* a dating
>>site.  Tell us about yourself, your experiences, etc, ask questions, but
>>no trawling for unicorns.
>
>I think he or she is replying to an older post from someone who was trawling 
>for unicorns themselves.  Not that I'd turn down a unicorn myself now and then.
>--scott

Not opposed to unicorns, but this is not the glade in which to find
them.
-- 
Once a newspaper touches a story, the facts are lost forever, even to
the protagonists. - Norman Mailer

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#32393

Not that I can give any advice. Cause I feel you . I’m looking for some one here in india but alas life can be really tough to seek partner who seeks exactly same as we .

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#32601

M. Arif via googlegroups.com 
	
Thu, Aug 25, 7:27 PM (11 hours ago)
	
to
Hi! every one. I like to Chat On line and/or write me on my E-mail address. I have my yahoo E-mail address too and google account. I am living in Karachi, Pakistan. I do interest in Polyamory but I am not exist in any western countries. So, I am seeking some one who can write me for their concerns. I like your comments very much. If you like please write back me.

I am waiting for your sharp responses.

Best regards.


Yours lovely,


M. Arif,
Karachi west,
Pakistan

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