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One of the questions posed by this book is: "Is it worth ruining so man= y lives to punish guys who got carried away for an hour?" [p. 284]. What is= your own answer? If it is "no," do you believe that such leniency should a= pply in all similar cases? Lefkowitz's sweeping narrative, informed by more than 200 interviews and si= x years of research, recreates a murky adolescent world that parents didn't= - or wouldn't - see: a high school dominated by a band of predatory athlet= es; a teenage culture where girls were frequently abused and humiliated at = sybaritic and destructive parties; and a town that continued to embrace its= celebrity athletes-despite the havoc they created-as "our guys". The clash= of cultures and values that divided Glen Ridge, Lefkowitz writes, still di= vides the country. our guys bernard lefkowitz pdf free DOWNLOAD https://7nasiltranbi.blogspot.com/?vwf=3D2wRGgR=20 Lefkowitz, Bernard. Our Guys: The Glen Ridge Rape and the Secret Life of th= e Perfect Suburb. University of California Press, 1997. Reprint New York: N= otable Trials Library, 1998. Introduction by Alan M. Dershowitz. xi, 443 pp= . pp. Quarter-calf, gilt, raised bands, marbled endpapers, edges gilt, ribb= on marker. Fine. $35. * It was a crime that captured national attention. In= the idyllic suburb of Glen Ridge, New Jersey, four of the town's most popu= lar high school athletes were accused of raping a retarded young woman whil= e nine of their teammates watched. Everyone was riveted by the question: Wh= at went wrong in this seemingly flawless American town? In search of the an= swer, Bernard Lefkowitz takes the reader behind Glen Ridge's manicured faca= de into the shadowy basement that was the scene of the rape, into the mansi= ons on "Millionaire's Row," into the All-American high school, and finally = into the courtroom where justice itself was on trial. Lefkowitz's sweeping = narrative, informed by more than 200 interviews and six years of research, = recreates a murky adolescent world that parents didn't-or wouldn't-see: a h= igh school dominated by a band of predatory athletes; a teenage culture whe= re girls were frequently abused and humiliated at sybaritic and destructive= parties, and a town that continued to embrace its celebrity athletes-despi= te the havoc they created-as "our guys." But that was not only true of Glen= Ridge; Lefkowitz found that the unqualified adulation the athletes receive= d in their town was echoed in communities throughout the nation. Glen Ridge= was not an aberration. The clash of cultures and values that divided Glen = Ridge, Lefkowitz writes, still divides the country. Parents, teachers, and = anyone concerned with how children are raised, how their characters are for= med, how boys and girls learn to treat each other, will want to read this i= mportant book. Parties could turn ugly when the adolescent partygoers decided they would u= se the party as a vehicle to hurt, one way or another, the party-giver, who= in almost every case was a young woman. These scenes became known among th= e youth of Glen Ridge as "revenge" parties. The specific reason for the pun= ishment seemed less important than the opportunity to hurt the girl. "If yo= u're a girl and they don't respect you and they don't like you, forget it,"= said one of Chris Archer's wrestling teammates. This wrestler and other Jo= cks described what had happened to one of the Jocks' Little Mothers when sh= e drank too much at a party. Like a bag of garbage, the girl was dumped in = a closet as the party wound down; the guys locked the closet door and left = her confined in the dark to gag on her vomit. Again, the Jocks noted the in= cident in the yearbook as one of the bright moments of their school years. Kids who weren't in the cafeteria when Mary Ryan issued her invitation hear= d about it soon enough, and word traveled swiftly to students in other comm= unities. February was the wrestling season, and high school wrestlers for m= iles around were told of the impending party. That's how it worked. Wrestle= rs told wrestlers; cheerleaders told cheerleaders in other towns. Why so mu= ch excitement? Parties with parents absent were not uncommon. But this one = had the makings of something special. For Glen Ridge kids, the big attracti= on was that Mary Ryan, a tuition student, lived just across the town border= in East Orange. They thought that if the cops busted the party, the guys' = parents were less likely to find out. "When you got out of Glen Ridge, you = go crazy," one of the athletes recalled. "There are no neighbors to stop yo= u or tell your mother." Instead of on Saturday, the party began spontaneously on Friday, February 1= 3. By sundown every parking space for three blocks around the Ryans' house = was taken. There were kids from Caldwell, Montclair, Bloomfield and Verona.= From private schools and public schools, from middle school and high schoo= l. There were older guys who had graduated three or four years ago. There w= ere even kids from East Side High School in Newark. There were Jocks and Gu= idos and Giggers, cheerleaders and majorettes, and even a few "band fags." = There were girls who looked too young to get into a movie alone and some wh= o seemed old enough to be married and have kids. There were kids who brough= t bottles, and kids who lugged cases of beer on their shoulders, and some w= ho rolled kegs up the front steps into the kitchen. They started taking the furniture apart. Within an hour the legs had been b= roken off everything that was standing -- coffee tables, kitchen chairs and= table, side tables. A couple of guys got the idea of using a leg from the = kitchen table as a battering ram. One-two-three -- charge. The leg smashed = through the plasterboard, leaving a hole the size of a saucer. Back up and = start all over. The hold got bigger and bigger, maybe two, three feet in di= ameter. Okay, let's start on the other wall. One wall was covered floor to ceiling with a bamboo stand to hold decorativ= e objects. The stand had been attached to the wall. "Betcha can't break tha= t in half," one Jock challenged another. As if he were working out in the s= chool exercise room, the other Jock stood with his back to the bamboo, his = arms raised behind his shoulders. A deep breath and pull. The entire bamboo= stand, with everything that rested on it, came crashing to the floor. A fe= w minutes later some guys were breaking pieces of the bamboo over their hea= ds and using them as swords in make-believe duels. Chris Archer took the basement. People who were there remembered him rushin= g down the stairs with a can of spray paint in his hand and spraying every = wall with painted graffiti. Another Jock, partygoers recalled, charged upst= airs, followed by a pack of football players and wrestlers. First thing the= y did was dismantle Mary's parents' bed. One kid had the idea of setting th= e mattress on fire, but another thought that was a stupid idea since it was= a waterbed. Let's puncture it, one guy suggested, and start a flood. Some = guys began stabbing it with a screwdriver and a kitchen knife. Other kids carried the bed frame to the top of the landing and, using it as= a makeshift toboggan, tried to slide down the stairs. But the frame was to= o wide to make for a level ride. The kids smashed all the balusters that he= ld up the stair rail. Now there was enough room. The guys sat on the frame,= their legs straddling the sides, and slid down the slope. 0aad45d008