Path: csiph.com!weretis.net!feeder8.news.weretis.net!reader5.news.weretis.net!news.solani.org!.POSTED!not-for-mail From: Clutterfreak Newsgroups: comp.os.linux.setup,comp.os.linux.advocacy,sci.physics Subject: Re: I did _not_ believe she'd do it. Date: Sat, 2 Oct 2021 23:26:07 -0500 Message-ID: References: Mime-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=UTF-8; format=flowed Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Injection-Date: Sun, 3 Oct 2021 04:26:09 -0000 (UTC) Injection-Info: solani.org; logging-data="5164"; mail-complaints-to="abuse@news.solani.org" User-Agent: Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64; rv:91.0) Gecko/20100101 Thunderbird/91.1.2 Content-Language: en-US X-User-ID: eJwFwQkBwEAIAzBLfIWbHZ76l7AEnppTkcgAwX1+QauMpZdhTTG0p6p90gIcR+gQvTEWbbs6v0S4lsoPSzsU9Q== X-Antivirus: Avast (VPS 211002-8, 10/2/2021), Outbound message X-Antivirus-Status: Clean Cancel-Lock: sha1:MUhaRim2nGH5URuWzC6lqfKNMkE= In-Reply-To: Xref: csiph.com comp.os.linux.setup:4645 comp.os.linux.advocacy:595140 sci.physics:833565 On 10/2/2021 10:14 PM, Jeff-Relf.Me@. wrote: > No, it happened because I did_not_ believe she'd do it. I think your obsession with computer had a role in it. Women don't understand that and consider a PC a rival. Anything that intensely occupy husband's time and attention _at_home_ is a rival to his wife. So she (in her female mind) punished you by doing the same with you. Similar thing happened to the son of one of my neighbors whom I wanted to fuck for a few years but every time I brought it up she asked "How much will you pay me for that?", so it never happened. I consider myself her best chance as it was. Her son from the age of 8 was into computers. He grew to be an Apple enthusiast, glued to it all the time and got a job reviewing Apple products. Then he had a nice marriage with a remarkable Texan woman who had limbs to show off even to top world models. Texas wasn't part of Mexico then. It actually had _Texans_ living in it. 9 months into a "fantastic" relationship as his mother kept telling me about them, one day the son visits his mother telling her she had asked him to move out of the house immediately. He moved out in one day and next day she was out to Las Vegas with one of the men she worked with at her job. I don't know how long later actual divorce took place. I remember I was giving it 90 or so percent chance it was the never ending infatuation with computer that did it. I bet he spent most of the hours that she was home at the computer. Cause it was his job also. Not 40 hours per week but just about every waking hour. A big mistake in a marriage. Women who make good money (she made very good money at her job) don't give a damn what their husbands do as their jobs as long as it is a full time job and then they come home to be with the woman, not for anything else. I had the same relationship with my wife and she literally one day told me that also. Before we married I told her "I am a warehouse worker and intend to be a warehouse worker too; are you sure about your feelings in marrying with someone like me?" I think I was making something like $15/hr at the time (the programming deal hadn't started yet) and she was making about one to three thousand dollars a day in some medical field depending how many patients she conducted some procedures on. In response to my question she told me what I just mentioned above. Women are serious about it. If they're on their own feet, all they need is a husband who has a full time job regardless of what it is, and spends his time with her when he comes home. Everything they do after work must be together. Wasting my time here. You don't deserve these valuable life lessons. Too late for you anyway. But what gets me is that your wife waited after two kids were born into the marriage before making her decision. This is the only thing that doesn't make sense to me, unless you began your affair with computer sometime later in your marriage. -- This email has been checked for viruses by Avast antivirus software. https://www.avast.com/antivirus